i've been transitioning for 11 months so far -i wanted to bc so bad at the beginning of my transition (i'd say month 1-6)i had springing coiled new growth that i LOVED! Then as my transition started to wear on (think months 7-9) my hair was kicking my a**...seriously...the new growth was beautiful still but the relaxed ends were giving me soo much trouble... but it was then that i decided i wanted this to be a long transition...for the past few months (think 10-11) my hair has been unbearable...i got braids in a week ago and have been steadily mtging...i've gotten almost an inch of growth and i'm loving my hair so----
the reasons why i won't bc:
-i'm loving the length. this is the longest i've been in my whole life (mid back with 3-4 inches of new growth)! if i cut it now i'd probably have a nervous breakdown-its not that im not ready to embrace the new texture, its just that with the emotional ups and downs i go through (more recently) if i did i'd be emotionally bruised
-because i've realized what a wonder cornrows have been...i'm thinking about doing them once every other month (6 times a year)
-because i had a bc when i was younger (4th grade)--- it was accidental but this jealous ***** at a salon gave me a full blown cut when all my mom wanted me to get was a trim...i had shoulder length hair and when she was done i had HALF AN INCH OF HAIR...that instance was something that damaged me badly...kids thought i was a boy (even with earrings on) and that hurt..then i had a damn twa until 6th/7th grade...kids can be so damned ignorant
-because this winter i might just do a small chop and spend most of winter in braids- its easier to go through winter with longer braided up moisturized hair than short hair..lol my head would get cold!
-because of my length...my mom and sister would kick my a**
hahahaha
-because as long as a i promise to take care of it, my hair will be wonderful regardless
-because im waiting until i get another 6 inches or so before i do anything..and right now i'm *kissing* lower mid back hair (about 4 full inches from waist)
-because theres no absolute hurry to be all natural. i'm loving me the way i am