CurleeDST
Well-Known Member
'Ok ladies, tell me how you would feel or react if you were the bride or invited guest.
You have a friend whom you grew up with and went to college with. You and her are both adults and once you hit college, you remained friends but started to hang in different circles. You both still live in the same town and invite each other over to dinner parties, holiday parties, etc. This friend is getting married and you remain single. This friend also has remained very good friends with an ex boyfriend of yours whom you still invite over to dinner parties, holiday parties, etc. because you both are now platonic friends.
You recieve a wedding invitation in the mail from your girl and the inside envelope simply shows your name. You are seeing someone under wraps and nothing serious and you have not shared this information with your girl whom you speak to on occasion. You call your ex and he tells you his invite has his name "and guest". Question 1: Would you be upset that your invitation does not have "and guest"? If so, why or why not. The wedding starts at 6 pm.
As the bride, if you found out your childhood friend did not come to your wedding based on the principle of you not considering her being able to bring a guest - how would that make you feel and what, if anything, would you say to your friend who did not come to the wedding or reception?
Thanks ladies!
You have a friend whom you grew up with and went to college with. You and her are both adults and once you hit college, you remained friends but started to hang in different circles. You both still live in the same town and invite each other over to dinner parties, holiday parties, etc. This friend is getting married and you remain single. This friend also has remained very good friends with an ex boyfriend of yours whom you still invite over to dinner parties, holiday parties, etc. because you both are now platonic friends.
You recieve a wedding invitation in the mail from your girl and the inside envelope simply shows your name. You are seeing someone under wraps and nothing serious and you have not shared this information with your girl whom you speak to on occasion. You call your ex and he tells you his invite has his name "and guest". Question 1: Would you be upset that your invitation does not have "and guest"? If so, why or why not. The wedding starts at 6 pm.
As the bride, if you found out your childhood friend did not come to your wedding based on the principle of you not considering her being able to bring a guest - how would that make you feel and what, if anything, would you say to your friend who did not come to the wedding or reception?
Thanks ladies!