Crystalicequeen123
Well-Known Member
Okay, so there's this guy that I know who's been liking me for at least a year. I don't have to guess that he likes me...I just know. LOL! I've heard stuff from his friends who have told me, his actions (he's kind of shy and acts weird around me), and just the general "vibe" you get when a guy likes you.
BUT...the only thing is...I'm not into him in the least!!
-First of all, I just got out of a relationship in February, so I'm giving all guys a temporary break until August.
-I still have feelings for a guy friend of mine, but I'm slowly but surely getting over him. So my heart is not really "into" anyone right now.
-Lastly, this guy that likes me is so weird!
I'm not interested in him in the least! He acts so weird around me, he has very strict or black/white views and opinions (I like a more laid back kind of guy), and he doesn't seem well-adjusted socially. Not only that, but he has acted rudely towards me in the past when he sensed that I didn't like him "like that". And LAST but not least...I'm not even attracted to him PHYSICALLY!
I know looks aren't everything, but this guy just does not do it for me at all. He's awkward, he's weird, and I dont' even like him as a "friend".
He gave up last year trying to pursue me (thank goodness) when I think he sensed that I didn't like him like that. I think he could sense that I liked my guy friend. But...recently (for SOME reason) , he's been trying again to pursue me, and I'm not really feeling him. Overall, he's a nice guy (I guess), and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but how do I let him know that I'm not interested without being mean? This is someone Ihave to see every week!
I'd like to do it in a nice subtle way...you know, maybe mention other guys around him, or turn him into a friendzoned guy without hurting his feelings by coming right out and saying: "look buddy...can't you take the hint?? I'm just not into you!"
Am I wrong for this?? Why does it seem like I always attract guys that I'm not attracted to?? Why can't I for ONCE find a guy that is attracted to me, and I to him?? Is that so much to ask??
BUT...the only thing is...I'm not into him in the least!!
-First of all, I just got out of a relationship in February, so I'm giving all guys a temporary break until August.
-I still have feelings for a guy friend of mine, but I'm slowly but surely getting over him. So my heart is not really "into" anyone right now.
-Lastly, this guy that likes me is so weird!
I'm not interested in him in the least! He acts so weird around me, he has very strict or black/white views and opinions (I like a more laid back kind of guy), and he doesn't seem well-adjusted socially. Not only that, but he has acted rudely towards me in the past when he sensed that I didn't like him "like that". And LAST but not least...I'm not even attracted to him PHYSICALLY!
I know looks aren't everything, but this guy just does not do it for me at all. He's awkward, he's weird, and I dont' even like him as a "friend".
He gave up last year trying to pursue me (thank goodness) when I think he sensed that I didn't like him like that. I think he could sense that I liked my guy friend. But...recently (for SOME reason) , he's been trying again to pursue me, and I'm not really feeling him. Overall, he's a nice guy (I guess), and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but how do I let him know that I'm not interested without being mean? This is someone Ihave to see every week!
I'd like to do it in a nice subtle way...you know, maybe mention other guys around him, or turn him into a friendzoned guy without hurting his feelings by coming right out and saying: "look buddy...can't you take the hint?? I'm just not into you!"
Am I wrong for this?? Why does it seem like I always attract guys that I'm not attracted to?? Why can't I for ONCE find a guy that is attracted to me, and I to him?? Is that so much to ask??