assiyrabomb
Well-Known Member
On my way to my daughter's dance class this morning, she and I make a pit stop to Dunkin Donuts. She has MBL that I flat ironed last night for the first time in a year. I also straightened my hair as well. Anywho, we walk in and are standing in line when this older black man and his white, female friend/girlfriend walk in behind us. After a few minutes of standing in line, he makes a comment:
Him: "Excuse me but you and your daughter both have beautiful hair. At first, I thought you were wearing a wig but I realized it's your real hair."
Me: "Thank you."
Him: "Yea. You don't see black women with nice, long hair often. All they wear are wigs and weaves."
White woman: *chuckle*
Me: "Our hair grows. We just have to take care of it like anyone else."
It wasn't until I got in my car and thought about the convo that I got upset. I probably wouldn't have taken so much offensive if it were just him and I but to put down black women right in front of your white, female "companion" is what really pissed me off. And missy with her thin and scraggly ends even had the audacity to chuckle. I don't know if I'm over reacting but I'm livid.
Him: "Excuse me but you and your daughter both have beautiful hair. At first, I thought you were wearing a wig but I realized it's your real hair."
Me: "Thank you."
Him: "Yea. You don't see black women with nice, long hair often. All they wear are wigs and weaves."
White woman: *chuckle*
Me: "Our hair grows. We just have to take care of it like anyone else."
It wasn't until I got in my car and thought about the convo that I got upset. I probably wouldn't have taken so much offensive if it were just him and I but to put down black women right in front of your white, female "companion" is what really pissed me off. And missy with her thin and scraggly ends even had the audacity to chuckle. I don't know if I'm over reacting but I'm livid.