I am relatively new to stretching and, so far, am only 6 weeks post, but I can say what I've been using up until this point!
Elasta QP Mango Butter: I know the formula changed but, maybe it's just because I'm too dense to notice, I can't tell the difference between the new brand and the old formula. Actually, the only difference I see is that the new brand seemed a lot creamier when I opened it! My old brand seemed very thick, but this new stuff is like whipped goodness in a jar
NTM Silk Touch: a Godsend. I'm finding that, possibly due to over-processing, my hair gets very dry after washing/cond/air drying (not just the NG). NTM really helps give it nice moisture without being too greasy. For a while I was using ORS Olive Oil but I just felt like it weighed my hair down too much, even when I only used a reasonable amt!
Aphogee 2 Min Recon: Yeah, amazing-ness in a bottle. I'm using it once a week on wash days.
NTM Daily Deep Cond/Suave Humectant: These are both amazing conditioners and I love them both to the core
. I might have to give that Aussie Moist a try though, since it's getting such great results!