GabbyABaby
Active Member
Hey everyone,
I'm a new member of LHCF, but I'm not a stranger to this great website. I started my hair journey in 2007 with a relaxer and a year later I decided to grow it out. I transitioned for 18 months and I've been natural for 3 years. When I started taking better care of my hair my initial goal was BSL. While I had a relaxer I barely reached this goal (the nape of my hair was touching my bra strap), but after experiencing an awful setback after getting a bad relaxer I decided to go natural (something I thought I'd never do) and change my hair length goal to MBL. To this day, I'm so happy that I made that choice I love my natural hair! But one natural-haired problem that I think is hindering my progress is KNOTS (the fairy knots) they are sooo annoying and have been the reason why I continue to hack off my hair all the time! I love perfect ends and when my ends don't feel smooth I get to cutting! I take very good care of my hair (I moisturize 2x daily, I wear protective hairstyles, I always deep condition after a wash, and I have a good sense of protein-moisture balance with my hair) so I don't understand why this keeps happening. My first approach to dealing when I encountered these knots were to just let them rock, but this ended up in the very ends of my hair breaking off horribly. By summer 2010 the nape of my hair was inching past MBL (the rest of my hair takes a while to catch up) but the bottom half of my hair looked so thin and ugly so I just chopped it off to shoulder length. My hair grows pretty quick so I've never really had any qualms about cutting it. So lately I've just been searching and destroying every singly knot I come across, but that doesn't seem to be easing the problem but that just seems to be inhibiting me fro retaining length. So I've got this feedback mechanism going on with my hair now that stops me from growing it past the length it currently is (between APL and BSL) and I don't know what to do. I need help from all you experienced ladies, what should I do to get my hair to full MBL knot-free?
(I hope this post wasn't too long and boring )
I'm a new member of LHCF, but I'm not a stranger to this great website. I started my hair journey in 2007 with a relaxer and a year later I decided to grow it out. I transitioned for 18 months and I've been natural for 3 years. When I started taking better care of my hair my initial goal was BSL. While I had a relaxer I barely reached this goal (the nape of my hair was touching my bra strap), but after experiencing an awful setback after getting a bad relaxer I decided to go natural (something I thought I'd never do) and change my hair length goal to MBL. To this day, I'm so happy that I made that choice I love my natural hair! But one natural-haired problem that I think is hindering my progress is KNOTS (the fairy knots) they are sooo annoying and have been the reason why I continue to hack off my hair all the time! I love perfect ends and when my ends don't feel smooth I get to cutting! I take very good care of my hair (I moisturize 2x daily, I wear protective hairstyles, I always deep condition after a wash, and I have a good sense of protein-moisture balance with my hair) so I don't understand why this keeps happening. My first approach to dealing when I encountered these knots were to just let them rock, but this ended up in the very ends of my hair breaking off horribly. By summer 2010 the nape of my hair was inching past MBL (the rest of my hair takes a while to catch up) but the bottom half of my hair looked so thin and ugly so I just chopped it off to shoulder length. My hair grows pretty quick so I've never really had any qualms about cutting it. So lately I've just been searching and destroying every singly knot I come across, but that doesn't seem to be easing the problem but that just seems to be inhibiting me fro retaining length. So I've got this feedback mechanism going on with my hair now that stops me from growing it past the length it currently is (between APL and BSL) and I don't know what to do. I need help from all you experienced ladies, what should I do to get my hair to full MBL knot-free?
(I hope this post wasn't too long and boring )