"Adult Frustration" (LONG VENT)

...Hopefully this can stay appropriate.

My SO and I haven't had "relations" in about 3 weeks. Full relations.

I attempted to seduce him at my job last Thursday ( I closed) and he REFUSED to do it... talking about wait til we get home. Needless to say, I didn't want any... :rolleyes: ... when he was ready.

This weekend, he had me "dress" :bdance:up and didn't even do anything but sample the menu, which made me HIGHLY angry and irate at him:huh:. And again, "he wasn't ready." THIS WAS ALL HIS IDEA. He ends up going to watch TV for about 30 minutes before he decides to go to bed, and I'm in heat with "Pleasure" (Eric Jerome Dickey) in my hands, seething. :cry:

NEEDLESS to say, Sunday he tells me to "dress up" and I'm :huh::rolleyes: because ain't nothing finna happen. So he makes a comment yesterday that I should "give in" to his requests to dress up and put sexy outfits and heels on more...and I'm like.... :violin::realitycheck:.... Because you have to actually finish what you start and stimulate me if you expect ME to work for it.


Needless to say, I am very cranky toward him, and I don't want to be bothered. He's affectionate and lovey dovey, but if affection isn't going anywhere, then I don't want to be bothered. So needless to say, I'm at the point where I'd rather sleep on the couch and be left alone...

Am I wrong? What should I do? Is anyone else like me?

maybe he has or is getting ED. He probably asked you to dress up b/c he wanted to finish the job but when it was time to go to work, his car broke down if you know what i mean. he might be trying to hide his embarrassment by watching tv or putting the blame on you. the next time he suggests that you dress up perhaps you should suggest that try viagra if he says he doesn't need then tell him to prove it, if he can't then you know what time it is

eta: even men as young as 24 can have magic stick malfunctions and sometimes its a sign of a serious illness like diabetes.
 
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