Yesterday I went out with a friend and we got on the conversation of hair. She asked me about a mutual friend's hair-that mutual friend is black and has waistlenghth relaxed (gorgeous-I might add) hair. Anyways my friend that I went out with yesterday asked me how she got her hair to grow so long, I was like-"Well I think she just takes care of it and it might also be genetics." She told me she did not think black people's hair grew long at at all and she also wanted to find out my long hair friend's secret to give advice to a black women at work who wants to grow her hair.
She asked me why my hair is always short (collarbone length-when straightened)- I feel like I have always had short hair and so I was a little sad after she asked this. I didn't know what to say. I said it was natural so my length isn't fully shown, but then I thought to myself, well even w/ it straight I don't have long hair and never had long hair. I just got through wearing dreads for a few years like in 04' then I took them out and I am wearing it natural. I felt a little discouraged after that conversation, but I really want to prove to myself and others that my hair can grow (maybe not to waistlength) but it can grow to bsl-it just takes time- Okay, I am done w/my rant
She asked me why my hair is always short (collarbone length-when straightened)- I feel like I have always had short hair and so I was a little sad after she asked this. I didn't know what to say. I said it was natural so my length isn't fully shown, but then I thought to myself, well even w/ it straight I don't have long hair and never had long hair. I just got through wearing dreads for a few years like in 04' then I took them out and I am wearing it natural. I felt a little discouraged after that conversation, but I really want to prove to myself and others that my hair can grow (maybe not to waistlength) but it can grow to bsl-it just takes time- Okay, I am done w/my rant