THicknLong
Well-Known Member
Hey ladies.. I told myself I would just be focusing on my graduate degree and work. Of course I end up meeting a guy this weekend.. lol. So I usually sabotage relationships before they start. I am needing to know how do I allow him to pursue me, without friend zoning him. We met at a bar last weekend. Which is funny because we run in the same circles, we used to go to the same run club, we never actually met each other. One of my close girlfriends knows him as well, we were at the same birthday party 3 years ago.. Funny thing is I am a bit of an introvert so of course I never noticed him, I was just trying to run out of the place. Now here is the thing we work for the same company. I was the one that initiated the communication, when I Im'd him at work, but he offered his phone number first. It was funny because I offered him my email when I first met him. He told me when he gave his number he was trying to get my number not my email. lol. We are both in our 30s, no kids, single and have similar hobbies, exercising, reading, socializing with friends. Now ladies how do I find out if he is serious? Not just my work IM buddy, or texting buddy.
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