phynestone
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I know I posted this in my blog, but I wanted to get feedback from those who frequent this forum. There's a guy in my classes (actually, all of them) whom I met at orientation. On the first day of class, he sits next to me and proceeded to in all of our classes. We start talking and writing notes to each other like we're still in high school. I don't know if he was trying to test me or feel me out, but one day he tells me about this girl he met that he likes. I was polite and listened, and when I got home later in the evening, he calls me to verify the assignment, which was explained thoroughly in class. My roomies thought he was trying to see what my reaction would be and if I would be receptive to his calls after that. Anyway, when one of our classmates asked me for my number (a female) so we can stay in touch outside of class, he asks to get my number too. That was actually the first or second day of class. Okay, so last week, as we're leaving class, he suggests we should hang out sometime. I say that's fine b/c I thought he was being polite or didn't really mean it. This past week, he asks me about my plans for my birthday since it's this week. I told him I have a friend coming to visit me and so I will be busy showing her around. He writes again and says that we should do lunch for my birthday. I'm thinking, okay, that's nice. My roomies are saying it's a date and my roomie's special male friend claims the guy wants to see how lunch goes and possibly extend the date into the evening if it goes well. I see it as two friends hanging out, but now I'm not so sure. I wonder if he's trying to test the waters. The girl he told me about isn't a serious thing for him in his words, but I don't want to be played. So I guess it would be safe to say he's dating right now, but isn't exclusive with anyone. I don't want to overthing anything, but it's been a good while since I've been excited about a guy and well, I don't know. Thinking about trying the four man plan TheLaurynDoll suggested. What are your thoughts about this situation?