But both my sister and I have this hair type...I have a mix of both 4b on top with 4a on the sides...when I wore my hair natural...you could tell and it looked aweful...however I was able to fix it with my stay soft fro...it help with the ends so that they were not all sticking up all funny like...or I just wore a hat... 







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but not the results you have. the very ends of my hair can do that, not the rest, even with multiple washings and letting the hair dry as it will. check it out.