I didn't get married until I was 43 and have only been married for 20 months, so I was single for a long time. Girl, embrace your singleness and become very comfortable in your own skin. I really believe that God wants you to be happy and content with your relationship with Him, and then He will cause you and the person whom He has for you to come in contact with one another.
But it is true that God helps those who help themselves. Go places that tend to be frequented by men. I love doing DIY home projects, so I became a fixture in Home Depot, Lowes, the tool dept. in Sears, etc. You know how many men you encounter in those places. While in there, ask questions and look for help. Take classes at your local community college where you will find a mixture of men and women.
Also, don't be afraid to go it alone. Seeks out events going on in your city or other cities. I loved being single, so I had no problem buying one ticket to go to plays, concerts, sporting events, etc. And it is true that men are more comfortable approaching a woman individually then one who is among a group of girlfriends. Of course, as in any situation, you have to ask God for discernment. Folks out there these days can be crazy!
But it is true that God helps those who help themselves. Go places that tend to be frequented by men. I love doing DIY home projects, so I became a fixture in Home Depot, Lowes, the tool dept. in Sears, etc. You know how many men you encounter in those places. While in there, ask questions and look for help. Take classes at your local community college where you will find a mixture of men and women.
Also, don't be afraid to go it alone. Seeks out events going on in your city or other cities. I loved being single, so I had no problem buying one ticket to go to plays, concerts, sporting events, etc. And it is true that men are more comfortable approaching a woman individually then one who is among a group of girlfriends. Of course, as in any situation, you have to ask God for discernment. Folks out there these days can be crazy!
, but I believe there is some truth in what he is saying hell he had me questioning some of my past realtionships. I think if we are brutally honest with ourselves we can't keep blaming the lack of decent men (because many of us have had at least one decent guy). The question is what prevented us from marrying that guy, just a thought.
You have an opportunity to NOT be single and probably have a great life with a great guy, but you aren't giving it a chance. Just my two cents, for whatever it's worth...
