2013 Relaxed Hair Buddy Thread

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i was doing the garlic pill thing, but it's not working. i know that have a DHT blocker at the BSS. i might buy that and try it. i am going to make my relaxer appt today or tomorrow for that week of the 15th. i am not going to have her relax the edges. i was hoping some new hair would grow there. you ladies have been on my mind. i couldn't seem to get on through the app on my phone this past weekend. i was on a mini vacation trip. here is a pic of the little bugger that made my hair falling out possible!
http://s195.photobucket.com/user/sh...0-40a9-87f4-69718ea7944b_zpsdd42b7dd.jpg.html

What a cutie-pie!
 
The more the merrier! I'm relaxing around September 27 (I think).

Luprisi - wanna join our buddy group?

Absolutely. I really wanted to wait until September but I've never stretched my relaxer longer than 4 months. I'm thinking ill relax this time at 5 months post and shoot for 6 months post next time. Which relaxer is everyone using? I haven't self relaxed in over 5 years. I like to try mizani butter blends but not quite sure if the newer mild version will straighten my hair just enough to leave a mild texture.
 
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Rozlewis

Everything is good over here... I'm about 10 weeks post and I'll either relax the 24th of August or the 6th of Sept. We shall see... right now things are going ok - it's getting a little thick in there but not as bad as it could be. My turning point is usually weeks 12-14 where I just sprout a fro!

Anyways - I'll be joining you in the weekly roller sets Roz - I tried the air dry thing for awhile and I just ended up losing so much hair detanglling throughout the week it makes me think my hair just isn't happy unless it's smooth

GrowAHead, yes roller sets have saved my life. It is amazing how much they help when you are stretching. I can remember I always thought roller sets were for old people. Now look at me. A roller setting fool and loving it.
 
Cattypus1 xu93texas Altruisticoam yoli184 shortdub78 EnExitStageLeft soonergirl SunySydeofLyfe

Today marks 11 days since my last wash/CW and I am feigning. I'm suppose to wait until tomorrow but I'm going in y'll! The next wash will be in 11 days (pre-relaxer protein treatment), four days before my relaxer 15 MORE DAYS AND COUNTING!!

Can I tell you ladies a secret?!? I've been toying with the idea of transitioning to natural or at least doing a 12 month stretch. I am addicted to Reniece's YouTube video and I get mesmerized at the heads she has transformed from relaxed to natural. Maybe I should try texlaxing first to soften the line of demarcation first... I'm all over the place but I'm soo done with thin ends due to relaxing straight. Any advice for your buddy??

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shortdub78 he is a cutie. Are you still taking your vitami? I think taking an iron supplement would help. My baby is 9 months and i didn't get that much hair loss but my edges are thin.try castor oil. I hope your recovery comes quick!!
 
Cattypus1 xu93texas Altruisticoam yoli184 shortdub78 EnExitStageLeft soonergirl SunySydeofLyfe

Today marks 11 days since my last wash/CW and I am feigning. I'm suppose to wait until tomorrow but I'm going in y'll! The next wash will be in 11 days (pre-relaxer protein treatment), four days before my relaxer 15 MORE DAYS AND COUNTING!!

Can I tell you ladies a secret?!? I've been toying with the idea of transitioning to natural or at least doing a 12 month stretch. I am addicted to Reniece's YouTube video and I get mesmerized at the heads she has transformed from relaxed to natural. Maybe I should try texlaxing first to soften the line of demarcation first... I'm all over the place but I'm soo done with thin ends due to relaxing straight. Any advice for your buddy??

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I toyed with the same idea during my 6-month stretch last year and got over it. I just don't have that kind of hair. I have a friend who is in the midst of a transition. Making me really want to give it a try again...then I get a grip. I'm texlaxing to see where that takes me. Good luck, girl.
 
I toyed with the same idea during my 6-month stretch last year and got over it. I just don't have that kind of hair. I have a friend who is in the midst of a transition. Making me really want to give it a try again...then I get a grip. I'm texlaxing to see where that takes me. Good luck, girl.

Thanks I'll need it. Did you suffer any breakage during that six months? I'm thinking maybe I can handle it because I would wig it the entire time with 2-4 plats underneath. Texlaxing might just be the solution.

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Thanks I'll need it. Did you suffer any breakage during that six months? I'm thinking maybe I can handle it because I would wig it the entire time with 2-4 plats underneath. Texlaxing might just be the solution.

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Very little...it was just unmanageable as far as styling goes. It was great for my hair overall. I can't wait until that hair is at the bottom because that will mean the end of my thin ends.
 
shortdub78 he is a cutie. Are you still taking your vitami? I think taking an iron supplement would help. My baby is 9 months and i didn't get that much hair loss but my edges are thin.try castor oil. I hope your recovery comes quick!!

thank you!

yes, i am still taking my vits and iron, but i got other problems going on too. my cycle is nonstop. i am tired, like my energy is being drained and i am moody. i have been using JBCO.
 
Today marks 11 days since my last wash/CW and I am feigning. I'm suppose to wait until tomorrow but I'm going in y'll! The next wash will be in 11 days (pre-relaxer protein treatment), four days before my relaxer 15 MORE DAYS AND COUNTING!!

Can I tell you ladies a secret?!? I've been toying with the idea of transitioning to natural or at least doing a 12 month stretch. I am addicted to Reniece's YouTube video and I get mesmerized at the heads she has transformed from relaxed to natural. Maybe I should try texlaxing first to soften the line of demarcation first... I'm all over the place but I'm soo done with thin ends due to relaxing straight. Any advice for your buddy??

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i say transition to texlax., and start cutting off the relaxed ends. since you will be using the wigs as a protective style, cut off like an 1/2 every other month. i know i can't go the straight natural route. my hair is like cotton candy when humidity hits. i either gotta be a kinky/coily natural, a relaxed head.
 
i say transition to texlax., and start cutting off the relaxed ends. since you will be using the wigs as a protective style, cut off like an 1/2 every other month. i know i can't go the straight natural route. my hair is like cotton candy when humidity hits. i either gotta be a kinky/coily natural, a relaxed head.

Thanks shortdub78 Yeah that's what I'll probable end up doing...just have to see if my stylist can handle it. I think leaving the Nairobi Pamper in for 8-13 minutes with the majority of the time focusing on the middle, next my front hairline and my nape last because it's 4a.

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Thanks shortdub78 Yeah that's what I'll probable end up doing...just have to see if my stylist can handle it. I think leaving the Nairobi Pamper in for 8-13 minutes with the majority of the time focusing on the middle, next my front hairline and my nape last because it's 4a.

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how long does it usually take for your hair to process? tell her not to smooth it out, just let it process.
 
Mande30 klsjackson hey buddies!! In preparation of my relaxer next week, I did a strong protein treatment using Aphogee 2 step treatment. It was my first time using it and I was super nervous. My hair feels amazing today!! I moisturized and sealed last night before I went to bed and my hair stayed super moisturized all day! I will be purchasing the full size bottles and incorporating it into my regimen every six weeks. How are you ladies doing?
 
thank you!

yes, i am still taking my vits and iron, but i got other problems going on too. my cycle is nonstop. i am tired, like my energy is being drained and i am moody. i have been using JBCO.

I am there with you on the tired feeling. I wish I had the cure, I am told exercise energizes you but hey I am too lazy to try it...lol...Hope we both get past this postpartum thing fast!!!
 
@Mande30 @klsjackson hey buddies!! In preparation of my relaxer next week, I did a strong protein treatment using Aphogee 2 step treatment. It was my first time using it and I was super nervous. My hair feels amazing today!! I moisturized and sealed last night before I went to bed and my hair stayed super moisturized all day! I will be purchasing the full size bottles and incorporating it into my regimen every six weeks. How are you ladies doing?
mschristine
Funny, I did not get this mention. I have tried the Aphogee 2 step three times, all ended with major recovery. I have realized that I am sensitive to animal protein and hydrolyzed collagen is the very first ingredient. I am doing well with the 2 min. When is your relaxer.
 
mschristine
Funny, I did not get this mention. I have tried the Aphogee 2 step three times, all ended with major recovery. I have realized that I am sensitive to animal protein and hydrolyzed collagen is the very first ingredient. I am doing well with the 2 min. When is your relaxer.

I was very worried about doing it but my hair has responded well to it. I'm relaxing on Tuesday after I get home from work

ETA: I'm not expecting much in length retention since I've used a lot of heat and I'm relaxing earlier than usual...my next stretch is going to be 16 weeks with a lot of cowashing and bunning
 
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I was very worried about doing it but my hair has responded well to it. I'm relaxing on Tuesday after I get home from work

ETA: I'm not expecting much in length retention since I've used a lot of heat and I'm relaxing earlier than usual...my next stretch is going to be 16 weeks with a lot of cowashing and bunning


16 Weeks, huh? Buddy, I will travel with you as long as I can, but when these roots call you will have to finish without me. Who knows, I may be able to go all the way.
 
6 weeks post.

Still debating this "transition". I think I would miss having straight hair. Right now, it's a transition/relaxer stretch.
 
xu93texas KiWiStyle shortdub78 yoli184 Altruisticoam EnExitStageLeft soonergirl SunySydeofLyfe

Hey Buddies! Birthday today. Trying some new products with my PJ arse...can't help it. Tried some Lush solid shampoo (Trichomania) and American Cream conditioner--both were samples because I bought some henna (Caca Marron). Very, very nice shampoo and condish--I'll be buying! Going for a Bantu knot out. Got weekend hair plans?

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BUDDY!!!

I tried a sample of LUSH B&B hair moisturizer last night...I just put it on a small top portion to see if I like it and the smell...the jury is still out. How'd you like the shampoo and conditioner?? I also did Bantu knots on my DD last night...we're thinking a lot alike ;-). Make sure to show pics of your knot out. Other than that, my hair is still in two braids underneath my wig, I just washed Wednesday so I won't be doing anything other than re-braiding.

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xu93texas KiWiStyle shortdub78 yoli184 Altruisticoam EnExitStageLeft soonergirl SunySydeofLyfe

Hey Buddies! Birthday today. Trying some new products with my PJ arse...can't help it. Tried some Lush solid shampoo (Trichomania) and American Cream conditioner--both were samples because I bought some henna (Caca Marron). Very, very nice shampoo and condish--I'll be buying! Going for a Bantu knot out. Got weekend hair plans?

Happy Birthday!

Can't wait to see your b-day hair :-)

No weekend hair plans for me....my wash day is Monday.
 
DominicanBrazilian82 sunnieb Nix08 Cherry89 baddison Luprisi,

Buds and Relaxed Ladies, I've been going through and great deal of stress this week. Forgive the absence but I hope to get some log-in time tonight. The rundown goes something like this.
Mon - anni of my dad's passing (it was years ago but it still hurts)
Mon night - found out an employee took his own life
Entire week - been dealing with the loss and I've had to take lead on various aspects because I'm a supervisor in the section where he worked
Thursday - mom had surgery to remove polyps from throat...appear non-cancerous but we will no for sure next week.

I'm just exhausted and emotionally drained.
 
xu93texas KiWiStyle shortdub78 yoli184 Altruisticoam EnExitStageLeft soonergirl SunySydeofLyfe

Hey Buddies! Birthday today. Trying some new products with my PJ arse...can't help it. Tried some Lush solid shampoo (Trichomania) and American Cream conditioner--both were samples because I bought some henna (Caca Marron). Very, very nice shampoo and condish--I'll be buying! Going for a Bantu knot out. Got weekend hair plans?

Happy happy birthday and wishes for a joy filled day and many more to come!!!

Sounds delish. I'm going to actually do my hair today and post pictures. I'm so lazy!!!

Suny
 
DominicanBrazilian82 sunnieb Nix08 Cherry89 baddison Luprisi,

Buds and Relaxed Ladies, I've been going through and great deal of stress this week. Forgive the absence but I hope to get some log-in time tonight. The rundown goes something like this.
Mon - anni of my dad's passing (it was years ago but it still hurts)
Mon night - found out an employee took his own life
Entire week - been dealing with the loss and I've had to take lead on various aspects because I'm a supervisor in the section where he worked
Thursday - mom had surgery to remove polyps from throat...appear non-cancerous but we will no for sure next week.

I'm just exhausted and emotionally drained.

I'm praying for you!

Suny
 
@divachyk close your eyes and feel the big ehug from Canada :bighug: On a brighter note you are doing an excellent job of your blog:yep: You're a beautiful person inside and out and I'm overjoyed to call you my friend:grin: Trust and have faith that before long you will be in a better mental space:yep:
 
DominicanBrazilian82 sunnieb Nix08 Cherry89 baddison Luprisi,

Buds and Relaxed Ladies, I've been going through and great deal of stress this week. Forgive the absence but I hope to get some log-in time tonight. The rundown goes something like this.
Mon - anni of my dad's passing (it was years ago but it still hurts)
Mon night - found out an employee took his own life
Entire week - been dealing with the loss and I've had to take lead on various aspects because I'm a supervisor in the section where he worked
Thursday - mom had surgery to remove polyps from throat...appear non-cancerous but we will no for sure next week.

I'm just exhausted and emotionally drained.

divachyk I'm sorry you're dealing with a lot of emotional issues...I hope you feel like yourself again soon. I'm sure your mom is fine, try not to worry too much but I know that's a difficult task. BIG HUG!

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