2013 Relaxed Hair Buddy Thread

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Luprisi
divachyk
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OK, TEAM_18WEEKS!!! If you relaxed last weekend or this weekend, our next, third, and FINAL 18WEEK relaxer for the year 2013 falls on or around SATURDAY, DECEMBER 21st. :congrats:

Just in time for Christmas!! :woohoo:

Take a bow ladies, we are the stretching samurai!! LOL!! :clap: :clap:

Lets see those progress shots!!! (...myself included..LOL!!) :dance7:

I am so ready. ..I am dc'ing now and will steam it in. .I MAY make the time on Wednesday. I'm thinking the high of a fresh relaxer will give me energy on thursday after the late night.
 
Sorry to hear that you are not feeling well. I hope your cold passes soon.

As far as what teachers do to not get sick: 1) After the first year, I think we become immune, lol! I was so sick the first year I taught. But now, I hardly ever catch a cold, mostly sinus issues. Plus, now that I am administrator I have little to no direct contact with students on a daily basis. Anyway, We also know to wash our hands constantly!! Every time I touch a door, a book, etc. I follow with washing my hands or at least using hand sanitizer. I keep a small bottle with me.

I have a question for my buddies (and anyone else reading this): What do you do with products that you don't love? I hate to throw products away, but at the same time, I don't want to use something that will not deliver the results that I like. For example, I bought the huge bottle of Tresseme' at Target for $5. It's okay, but not moisturizing enough for my hair. I have tried to use it several times, but I think my hair hates it. Another product that I have that doesn't work for me is the KeraPro Shampoo from Sally's. It leaves my hair feeling very coated and heavy no matter how much I rinse.

I'm feeling a lot better! Hopefully I'll be 100% in a couple of days. I also bought tresseme and it was not for me. To use it up, I mix it in my daily moisturizing spritz with some glycerin and that works well or I use it as a prepoo and it works well for that too. I use shampoos I don't like to shave my legs and that works out well too.
 
divachyk

I thought you were going to trim when you reached WL? Your ends don't look bad at all, may I ask why you want to cut?

EnExitStageLeft, girl pay me no attention. I do this often and dh hears it all the time. I just don't post my thoughts openly since I'm wishy washy. Honestly - my personality is to not nurse tired ends. I like manicured ends, nothing compares. It pains me each TU to let it go on and on. I'm trying to be patient but...that, I lack. Plus, I want a U shape but don't want to give up the length to reshape. I just want a change to spice things up. ETA: Thank you for the encouragement.
 
Ladies - I'm looking for a good article that I can repost on Disodium EDTA. Anyone have one or know where I can find one?? I suppose I can post this in the random thoughts or dumb question thread but thought I start here.
 
Cattypus1 xu93texas Altruisticoam yoli184 shortdub78 EnExitStageLeft soonergirl KiWiStyle

Ladies, do any of you have any tips on a dry roller wrap? I used the instyler the other day, not so bad the brush was soft, I was scared tho but it doesn't seem it caused any harm....I didn't like it doesn't have a temperature control...anyhoo...I don't feel like washing my hair, but have plans for the day, I was thinking of using the Caruso rollers, saran wrap and then sitting under the dryer, anybody got a easier fast way they can think of? TIA!!
 
Cattypus1 xu93texas Altruisticoam yoli184 shortdub78 EnExitStageLeft soonergirl KiWiStyle

Ladies, do any of you have any tips on a dry roller wrap? I used the instyler the other day, not so bad the brush was soft, I was scared tho but it doesn't seem it caused any harm....I didn't like it doesn't have a temperature control...anyhoo...I don't feel like washing my hair, but have plans for the day, I was thinking of using the Caruso rollers, saran wrap and then sitting under the dryer, anybody got a easier fast way they can think of? TIA!!

we are on the same track. i have hot rollers that i use, i can't use the caruso, my hair will be limp.
 
Cattypus1 xu93texas Altruisticoam yoli184 shortdub78 EnExitStageLeft soonergirl KiWiStyle

Ladies, do any of you have any tips on a dry roller wrap? I used the instyler the other day, not so bad the brush was soft, I was scared tho but it doesn't seem it caused any harm....I didn't like it doesn't have a temperature control...anyhoo...I don't feel like washing my hair, but have plans for the day, I was thinking of using the Caruso rollers, saran wrap and then sitting under the dryer, anybody got a easier fast way they can think of? TIA!!

Hey, loving the bangs on you! I can't help with any advice or tips for today. But I have my eyes set on the Conair Xtreme Instant Heat Ceramic Hot Rollers.
 
we are on the same track. i have hot rollers that i use, i can't use the caruso, my hair will be limp.

I was thinking about limp hair but I used the Caruso rollers. Im going to leave them in until a hour before we go and wrap my hair while I get ready. Hoping for good results. If these dont do it im going to dry the hot rollers.

Suny
 
Cattypus1 xu93texas Altruisticoam yoli184 shortdub78 EnExitStageLeft soonergirl KiWiStyle

Ladies, do any of you have any tips on a dry roller wrap? I used the instyler the other day, not so bad the brush was soft, I was scared tho but it doesn't seem it caused any harm....I didn't like it doesn't have a temperature control...anyhoo...I don't feel like washing my hair, but have plans for the day, I was thinking of using the Caruso rollers, saran wrap and then sitting under the dryer, anybody got a easier fast way they can think of? TIA!!

Dry hair and Bantu knot-outs on previously curled hair works like champ for me. I've also done a kind of doughnut with a scrunchie or a couple of scrunchies. I just pull the length of my hair through the scrunchie like I'm going to make a ponytail and keep wrapping the pony under and through the scrunchie until I run our of hair, cover with a bonnet and go to bed. Makes for great sleeping and a nice curl when I pull off the scrunchie. You could add a little bit of moisture and sit under a cool dryer for a bit to set.
 
I'm wearing a ball cap today and under that cap are 9 horizontal parts with tiny ponytail holders in anticipation of tonights relaxer:yay: I'm so excited. I fully detangled last night and put out my relaxer, towel, sprush, ear protectors, neutralizing poo, and protein conditioner. I reviewed my notes to remind myself to put music on, set the timer, no acv rinse until the very end, etc.
I just remembered that the acv I have in my shower stall has rosemary in there and I don't want to use that one.
I'm so hoping it turns out good. I'm sticking with with mizani butter blends and the new container says that it straightens better than the last so we'll see.
It's been about 18 weeks I really hope I'm happy with my retention, REALLY hope so:look:
 
Cattypus1 xu93texas Altruisticoam yoli184 shortdub78 EnExitStageLeft soonergirl KiWiStyle

Ladies, do any of you have any tips on a dry roller wrap? I used the instyler the other day, not so bad the brush was soft, I was scared tho but it doesn't seem it caused any harm....I didn't like it doesn't have a temperature control...anyhoo...I don't feel like washing my hair, but have plans for the day, I was thinking of using the Caruso rollers, saran wrap and then sitting under the dryer, anybody got a easier fast way they can think of? TIA!!

I have no experience with any of the rollers mentioned but I have roller wrapped a year or so back. I think lightly using a serum and a good dryer that gets hot and has excellent air flow to get it done fast is key otherwise you could just sweat your wrap out underneath the plastic. So to answer your question, your way is the only way I know to do it.

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sunnieb Nix08 baddison Cherry89 divachyk Luprisi pre_medicalrulz

I finally did my 2-Step last night! I won't really know how it came out until I wash my DC out (overnight with HV Strinnilah) and rollerset. I am still relaxing this weekend for sure! Ready to rollerset without flat ironing again!

I did my 2 step on Monday and I liked it a lot!! I will continue to do it every 6 weeks from now on. Are you oiling your scalp? I didn't this time because it makes my scalp to itch.
 
I'm wearing a ball cap today and under that cap are 9 horizontal parts with tiny ponytail holders in anticipation of tonights relaxer:yay: I'm so excited. I fully detangled last night and put out my relaxer, towel, sprush, ear protectors, neutralizing poo, and protein conditioner. I reviewed my notes to remind myself to put music on, set the timer, no acv rinse until the very end, etc.
I just remembered that the acv I have in my shower stall has rosemary in there and I don't want to use that one.
I'm so hoping it turns out good. I'm sticking with with mizani butter blends and the new container says that it straightens better than the last so we'll see.
It's been about 18 weeks I really hope I'm happy with my retention, REALLY hope so:look:

Yeah!! I'm relaxing either Friday or Saturday!!! I'm kind of intrigued by your horizontal parts with ponytail holders. Are you still doing the half and half method?
 
@Luprisi I don't do the half and half method. Patience is not my strong suit so when I start my relaxer I know in 30 minutes, I'm all straight. I do horizontal pre parts then when I'm applying relaxer I apply relaxer at the top and bottom of each part and apply my relaxer vertically within each horizontal part (hopefully that's clear). Sunnieb has a fotki where she shows how she does about 50 twists so her entire head is pre parted and she just lifts the twists and applies relaxer it looks like a great way of doing it...lazy me just can't commit to doing all of the twists before hand:giggle:


I almost forgot to get out my cape for when I rinse. Plus I put out my avg for my dc...I always apply avg to my scalp during my post relaxer steamed DC. I've added water to my DC, now I'm going to apply wgo to my ends and wait for the kids to go to bed:yep:
 
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@Luprisi I don't do the half and half method. Patience is not my strong suit so when I start my relaxer I know in 30 minutes, I'm all straight. I do horizontal pre parts then when I'm applying relaxer I apply relaxer at the top and bottom of each part and apply my relaxer vertically within each horizontal part (hopefully that's clear). Sunnieb has a fotki where she shows how she does about 50 twists so her entire head is pre parted and she just lifts the twists and applies relaxer it looks like a great way of doing it...lazy me just can't commit to doing all of the twists before hand:giggle:


I almost forgot to get out my cape for when I rinse. Plus I put out my avg for my dc...I always apply avg to my scalp during my post relaxer steamed DC. I've added water to my DC, now I'm going to apply wgo to my ends and wait for the kids to go to bed:yep:

I see, since ill be texturizing leaving mine for 30 minutes would be too much. I'm planning on doing twist ( not 50 though lol ). I love adding aloe vera to my DC. Let us know how it goes.
 
I did my 2 step on Monday and I liked it a lot!! I will continue to do it every 6 weeks from now on. Are you oiling your scalp? I didn't this time because it makes my scalp to itch.

Luprisi I did not oil my scalp or hair. I clarified with ORS Creamy Aloe and applied the 2 Step. After rinsing I DC'd (still DC'ing) with Strinillah. I was actually thinking about adding oil but decided against in case the treatment wouldn't take. When do you relax?
 
I see, since ill be texturizing leaving mine for 30 minutes would be too much. I'm planning on doing twist ( not 50 though lol ). I love adding aloe vera to my DC. Let us know how it goes.

I don't leave it for a full 30 (well not every time :look:)...Oh and I don't oil my scalp either. Just the perimeter of my head and ends.

DominicanBrazilian82 did you relax already?
 
Luprisi I did not oil my scalp or hair. I clarified with ORS Creamy Aloe and applied the 2 Step. After rinsing I DC'd (still DC'ing) with Strinillah. I was actually thinking about adding oil but decided against in case the treatment wouldn't take. When do you relax?

Either Friday or Saturday. I clarified as well but added oils to the DC. I then blew dried on low and flat ironed on low heat as well to make it easier to part my hair. Looking back though I think I should've roller set as I've been doing lately.
 

Ok buddies, so use henna on their hair?? I bought henna for the first time this week and I'm wondering how much longer after my relaxer should I wait to do it. I got the lush caca noir and I've never used henna so Im hoping to get suggestions from you if possible.[/QUOTE]

My question as well... Bought some last week. Wanted to henna and protein same day. But I didn't get a response from those who know more.
 
Ok buddies, so use henna on their hair?? I bought henna for the first time this week and I'm wondering how much longer after my relaxer should I wait to do it. I got the lush caca noir and I've never used henna so Im hoping to get suggestions from you if possible.

My question as well... Bought some last week. Wanted to henna and protein same day. But I didn't get a response from those who know more.[/QUOTE]

I have not used henna but I did try cassia. It was OKAY. I have thin strands, medium density, normal porosity. My hair was stronger after but no magic happened. Not for me anyway.
 
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