2012 Relaxed Hair Buddy Thread

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baddison I planned on relaxing at 10 b/c my last couple of stretches were 16 and that was too much. Now, I'm just playing it by ear. I have cornrows in now for the next two weeks
 
Raspberry and baddison,

Thanks ladies, I appreciate your concern. I think everything will go well on my next wash day. It's been 3 days and no breakage or shedding. I've been wearing four plaits daily underneath my wig to keep my hands out of my hair. I didn't wash in sections, but I'll do that this weekend. I'm also going back to my old staple, Redken Anti-Snap treatment. This product really got me through my last stretch.
 
xu93texas said:
Raspberry and baddison,

Thanks ladies, I appreciate your concern. I think everything will go well on my next wash day. It's been 3 days and no breakage or shedding. I've been wearing four plaits daily underneath my wig to keep my hands out of my hair. I didn't wash in sections, but I'll do that this weekend. I'm also going back to my old staple, Redken Anti-Snap treatment. This product really got me through my last stretch.

xu93texas,

That's great, I'm glad the shedding has decreased! How do you use the Redkin Anti-Snap?

I still don't know if I have till have excessive shedding because it's still in my protective style until tomorrow. I agree, washing in sections this late in the game is almost a must.

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baddison, xu93texas, Raspberry

Well I'm over what I consider the "relaxer stretch hump" and finally in the homestretch (no pun intended), I reached 13 weeks post relaxer today! I feel like once I can successfully get passed the 12 weeks mark, the following 2-4 weeks should be a breeze. You guys have no idea how using the QB AOHC has transformed my NG, it's not packed down even though I wear my silk scarf nightly, it just springs right back up. It remained soft even after a week (tomorrow) of protective styling. My scalp has been a bit itchy but I don't know if it's growth tingles or product build-up because I did apply it directly on my scalp and NG/line of demarcation. I'm leaning towards growth tingles though because in the previous weeks, I applied a lot more to my scalp with my MN mix and got no itchies ;-). Three more weeks to go!! I'm going to continue my regimen as I have been and prayerfully the shedding stopped; I'll know tomorrow.

Anyhoo, baddison, xu93texas,
Have you decided on your pre-relaxer strategies? I really don't feel like being bothered with the Aphogee 2-Step. What heavy protein treatments do you use? I think I'll reserve the 2-step for the 6-8 weeks post relaxer protein treatment, less stress . Last time I prepped my hair with Roux Poroity Control Conditioner and CHI Silk Infusion; Maybe I was heavyhanded but one of these products caused under processed areas. The jury is still out on whether or not I liked my hair having slight texture, I have exactly three weeks to figure it out though.
 
@xu93texas,

That's great, I'm glad the shedding has decreased! How do you use the Redkin Anti-Snap?

I still don't know if I have till have excessive shedding because it's still in my protective style until tomorrow. I agree, washing in sections this late in the game is almost a must.

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I use Redken Anti-Snap as a leave in treatment after wash/DC. I'm going product shopping today for a new serum to apply to hair before airdrying. I sold the PM SSS. I have Chi Silk Infusion, but I don't want to use that b/c it has protein in it. The Redken Anti-Snap treatment contains proteins and ceramides. I'm thinking about purchasing Moroccan Oil treatment from Ulta.
 
@baddison, @xu93texas, @Raspberry

Well I'm over what I consider the "relaxer stretch hump" and finally in the homestretch (no pun intended), I reached 13 weeks post relaxer today! I feel like once I can successfully get passed the 12 weeks mark, the following 2-4 weeks should be a breeze. You guys have no idea how using the QB AOHC has transformed my NG, it's not packed down even though I wear my silk scarf nightly, it just springs right back up. It remained soft even after a week (tomorrow) of protective styling. My scalp has been a bit itchy but I don't know if it's growth tingles or product build-up because I did apply it directly on my scalp and NG/line of demarcation. I'm leaning towards growth tingles though because in the previous weeks, I applied a lot more to my scalp with my MN mix and got no itchies ;-). Three more weeks to go!! I'm going to continue my regimen as I have been and prayerfully the shedding stopped; I'll know tomorrow.

Anyhoo, @baddison, @xu93texas,
Have you decided on your pre-relaxer strategies? I really don't feel like being bothered with the Aphogee 2-Step. What heavy protein treatments do you use? I think I'll reserve the 2-step for the 6-8 weeks post relaxer protein treatment, less stress . Last time I prepped my hair with Roux Poroity Control Conditioner and CHI Silk Infusion; Maybe I was heavyhanded but one of these products caused under processed areas. The jury is still out on whether or not I liked my hair having slight texture, I have exactly three weeks to figure it out though.

I will be purchasing Dudley's DRC 28 and do a treatment about 5 days before relaxing. I'll also base my nape, edges and hairline with that Summit stuff and apply evco to my hair the night before. That's it.

I've tried a sample of QB AOHC and I didn't care for it. My fave product from this line is the Cocoa Tree Detangling Ghee. Love it :lick:. I used it last night to moisturize my plaits and ng instead of DB transitioning creme. I alternate both products.

Yep, 13 weeks today for me as well. I'm at a point now where I'm going to take it one week at a time and baby my hair. I think I'm going to cowash today, not sure. I'm feeling more confident about my hair.
 
xu93texas said:
I use Redken Anti-Snap as a leave in treatment after wash/DC. I'm going product shopping today for a new serum to apply to hair before airdrying. I sold the PM SSS. I have Chi Silk Infusion, but I don't want to use that b/c it has protein in it. The Redken Anti-Snap treatment contains proteins and ceramides. I'm thinking about purchasing Moroccan Oil treatment from Ulta.

Biosilk Therapy, Kenra Straightening Serum, Redkin Smooth down and Kenra Platinum Silkening Gloss are good serums too. I'm not sure if they have proteins in them. I always refer to Audrey's e-book "Hair Care Rehab" for product guidance. You installed it as well, right??

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Yes, I did install it. Thanks for the reminder. I've used BioSilk before, wasn't impressed. I'll check into the others.
 
xu93texas said:
I will be purchasing Dudley's DRC 28 and do a treatment about 5 days before relaxing. I'll also base my nape, edges and hairline with that Summit stuff and apply evco to my hair the night before. That's it.

I've tried a sample of QB AOHC and I didn't care for it. My fave product from this line is the Cocoa Tree Detangling Ghee. Love it :lick:. I used it last night to moisturize my plaits and ng instead of DB transitioning creme. I alternate both products.

Yep, 13 weeks today for me as well. I'm at a point now where I'm going to take it one week at a time and baby my hair. I think I'm going to cowash today, not sure. I'm feeling more confident about my hair.

I've heard lots of good things about the Dudley's DRC 28 and DB Cocoa Tree Detangling Ghee, I might have to go take a look at that one. The DB AOHC isn't for everyone or heavy handed folks. I bought it exclusively for my NG, not necessarily for my lengthy, it could be to heavy.

"Summit stuff", Where do I find this summit stuff?? I don't think I heard of that one.

I will be protecting my front bang area and hairline like I never had before. I need some serious retention in these areas.

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xu93texas said:
I use Redken Anti-Snap as a leave in treatment after wash/DC. I'm going product shopping today for a new serum to apply to hair before airdrying. I sold the PM SSS. I have Chi Silk Infusion, but I don't want to use that b/c it has protein in it. The Redken Anti-Snap treatment contains proteins and ceramides. I'm thinking about purchasing Moroccan Oil treatment from Ulta.

After my last relaxer my hair was a pretty drier than usual and was breaking a little so I figured my stylist may have used too much high heat so I'm going in prepared with my own heat protectants. I just purchased Kerastase Ciment Thermique (before blow drying) and plan to buy the Kerastase Fibre Architect (before flat ironing) to take to the salon. She is a really good stylist but not perfect; she caused major heat damage to my DD's hair which will take years to grow out. I figured she's doing the same thing to my hair but I don't notice because I'm relaxed...

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The Cocoa Tree Detangle Ghee is from Qhemet, not DB. (so you want be searching all over for it.)

The name of the product is Summit Sensitive Scalp Base Creme. You can get it from your local bss. You apply it to scalp, forehead, ears, nape, neck and hairline. It's a classic, been using for years. (I bought it in a much smaller size- I think 12oz, it lasts a long time)

 
Girl that's what I meant to say, QB. I'm soo happy to have an authorized retailer near my house. In fact, I'll be driving pass it in a few minutes.

Is that base orange? I think my stylist uses that.

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Anyhoo, @baddison, @xu93texas,
Have you decided on your pre-relaxer strategies? I really don't feel like being bothered with the Aphogee 2-Step. What heavy protein treatments do you use? I think I'll reserve the 2-step for the 6-8 weeks post relaxer protein treatment, less stress . Last time I prepped my hair with Roux Poroity Control Conditioner and CHI Silk Infusion; Maybe I was heavyhanded but one of these products caused under processed areas. The jury is still out on whether or not I liked my hair having slight texture, I have exactly three weeks to figure it out though.

KiWiStyle : Congrats on getting "over the hump". Like you said, after crossing a certain point in the strech...its pretty much smooth sailing from here.

I am a regular henna-head. I've been henna'ing monthly for the past 4 years. Because of that, my hair is very very strong. I realized that the natural ayurvedic plants, herbs, and tannins in my NUPUR henna, have acted like proteins. My hair absolutely DOES NOT need protein treatments. At the slightest whiff of protein my hair hardens like wood...LOL! So its moisture, all the way. Since I henna monthly, my henna treatment tends to fall on the week right before my touchup. So, in answer to your questions - I guess THAT'S my pre-relaxer strategy...:yep:

Usually the following week after my relaxer, I will do a mild protein regimen, but that's it until the next henna treatment. Henna is not for everyone, and it kinda makes the relaxer orange during application. Additionally, you probably WONT get bone straight with henna coating your hair. But HEY! this is what works for me. Check out NUPUR's ingredients here, and see what each of the herbs actually do!
http://www.godrejnupur.com/newnupur.php
I believe this is why I do not have excessive shedding and/or breakage.
 
KiWiStyle said:
Biosilk Therapy, Kenra Straightening Serum, Redkin Smooth down and Kenra Platinum Silkening Gloss are good serums too. I'm not sure if they have proteins in them. I always refer to Audrey's e-book "Hair Care Rehab" for product guidance. You installed it as well, right??

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Where would I find this ebook?
 
KiWiStyle : Congrats on getting "over the hump". Like you said, after crossing a certain point in the strech...its pretty much smooth sailing from here.

I am a regular henna-head. I've been henna'ing monthly for the past 4 years. Because of that, my hair is very very strong. I realized that the natural ayurvedic plants, herbs, and tannins in my NUPUR henna, have acted like proteins. My hair absolutely DOES NOT need protein treatments. At the slightest whiff of protein my hair hardens like wood...LOL! So its moisture, all the way. Since I henna monthly, my henna treatment tends to fall on the week right before my touchup. So, in answer to your questions - I guess THAT'S my pre-relaxer strategy...:yep:

Usually the following week after my relaxer, I will do a mild protein regimen, but that's it until the next henna treatment. Henna is not for everyone, and it kinda makes the relaxer orange during application. Additionally, you probably WONT get bone straight with henna coating your hair. But HEY! this is what works for me. Check out NUPUR's ingredients here, and see what each of the herbs actually do!
http://www.godrejnupur.com/newnupur.php
I believe this is why I do not have excessive shedding and/or breakage.

baddison,

I have been researching henna and cassia, I love the conditioning and thickening effects of these powders. I plan to implement the cassia because of the lack of color transference to my hair. I will most likely purchase and try it after my relaxer TU next month. I just know it'll be beneficial in my regimen.
 
Where would I find this ebook?

Mznelly,

A few months back, the author was offering the copy for free download to your kindle app. The kindle app is free on your smartphone. She may or may not still have it available for free on Amazon.com.

ETA: The kindle purchase price is currently $9.99 on Amazon.com.
 
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I am soo ready to wash my hair for the week, my scalp is itching like crazy, IDK why:perplexed. I did the "scratch" test and there is nothing note worthy underneath my nails so there is no product build-up. Maybe i'm just getting antsy to get water on my scalp; I can't wait to relax my hair so I can co-wash again.
 
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KiWiStyle said:
Mznelly,

A few months back, the author was offering the copy for free download to your kindle app. The kindle app is free on your smartphone. She may or may not still have it available for free on Amazon.com.

ETA: The kindle purchase price is currently $9.99 on Amazon.com.

Just bought the book. I've already read The Science Of Black Hair Care--cover to cover! Great info!
 
KiWiStyle said:
I am soo ready to wash my hair for the week, my scalp is itching like crazy, IDK why:perplexed. I did the "scratch" test and there is nothing note worthy underneath my nails so there is no product build-up. Maybe i'm just getting antsy to get water on my scalp; I can't wait to relax my hair so I can co-wash again.

This is my third wash and DC for the week...15 weeks post, driving me crazy. Can't wait for that Mizani BB in a week and a half!
 
Cattypus1 said:
This is my third wash and DC for the week...15 weeks post, driving me crazy. Can't wait for that Mizani BB in a week and a half!

I just combed out enough hair to knit a sweater...Sunday will be TU day for me, that is provided I have enough hair left to relax! My longest stretch ever...I hope I didn't go too far!
 
Cattypus1 said:
This is my third wash and DC for the week...15 weeks post, driving me crazy. Can't wait for that Mizani BB in a week and a half!

I know!! Third wash!!?? I can't manipulate my fine strands that much so late in my stretch so no co-washing for me, only one weekly wash. I have three more weeks until relaxer and I'm taking all this NG like a champ, thanks to QB AOHC ;-).

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Cattypus1 said:
I just combed out enough hair to knit a sweater...Sunday will be TU day for me, that is provided I have enough hair left to relax! My longest stretch ever...I hope I didn't go too far!

Oh no!! I think as long as you beat your own record, you have succeeded.

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KiWiStyle said:
I know!! Third wash!!?? I can't manipulate my fine strands that much so late in my stretch so no co-washing for me, only one weekly wash. I have three more weeks until relaxer and I'm taking all this NG like a champ, thanks to QB AOHC ;-).

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Where do you get the the QB AOHC? I really need something, I'm miserable. I don't know what I'm going to do with my hair until Sunday, its a nappy mess!
 
Cattypus1 said:
Where do you get the the QB AOHC? I really need something, I'm miserable. I don't know what I'm going to do with my hair until Sunday, its a nappy mess!

Everything has been sold out on her website but you can check to see if there is an authorized retailer in your area. I'm one of the lucky ones; I have a retailer very close to my house. I think the website is Qhemetbiologics.com, if not just google it.

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Just got a relaxer touch up a week ago but I'm so confused. I have no split ends ( she cut them so my ends are super even) but I still have breakage? I thought split ends = breakage? My hair isn't dry....I moisturized and sealed every night this week. thoughts?
 
cutiepiesensei said:
Just got a relaxer touch up a week ago but I'm so confused. I have no split ends ( she cut them so my ends are super even) but I still have breakage? I thought split ends = breakage? My hair isn't dry....I moisturized and sealed every night this week. thoughts?

Time for a protein treatment maybe...
 
KiWiStyle said:
Everything has been sold out on her website but you can check to see if there is an authorized retailer in your area. I'm one of the lucky ones; I have a retailer very close to my house. I think the website is Qhemetbiologics.com, if not just google it.

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Lucky me...we have an authorized retailer in the Ville! I just left the shop with my QB AOHC (and a couple of other goodies) in hand. Can't wait til Im off from work to try it. Maybe I can actually complete my 16-week stretch after all. Thank you, KiWi. Preshadit.
 
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