Besides putting some protective coating on my hair like oil or con. I have about 1 to 2 inches of new growth in some places and my hair tends to tangle and get matted after just 2 days. What can I do to make sure the stylist doesnt rip through my hair? I know I have to wait bet 4-7 days after co wash or washing to do my relaxer and I wanted to get it done on 1/9 or 1/10 help pleaseerplexed