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Lighten up on the oil and conditioner; you will be surprised at how little you need. Also, the amount of time you leave the conditioner on plays a role. Since I am detangling with oil under the shower, much of it gets removed in the process.I can't seem to be able to do an oil rinse without soaking my hair with oil for some reason.
Have you tried Redken shampoos yet? The cleamy clarifying one gets great reviews.