Heyah girlies, its been a while, i just needed to vent this evening, so here it goes:
So,
I went to the hair dresser at 8 wks post relaxer with a lil over an inch new grwoth in some areas. I wanted to do a roller set but was too exhausted to attempt i myself so i went for a wash and set really on wednesday. Now the ng is soft, but i didnt brush my hair out before going. Man oh man, the detangling i could hear them ripping out my fine strands i was like hello! Then they were sounding all frustrated. I was like, chick, from the ends pleez.
After rinsing out conditioner they attempt to roller set. I dunno what they did to my hai but the comb woldnt go through it well despite the fact that it was soft! The woman goin to look at me and tell me that the reason she cant comb out the hair (midstrand) is because of the new growth, WHAT????!!! I put my fingers in my hair and omg sooooooooooo much hair had come out, NO white bulbs, all breakage, i was ready to cry! I got up out of the chair after 5 rollers had been put in, i said " just stop, cuz alll the past 8 weeks ive been doin my own hair and ive never seen this kind of breakage, just take this nonsense out and let me go do this my damn self" so they were all frightened took me back to the sink, conditioned it again, and the second time it seemed the comb went thru better.
Now after drying and taking out the rollers i go to brush it now, tanle after tangle after tangle!!!!! What?!?! How is that even ****** possible???? Sigh my heart hurts even while im typing this. Alll my hard work.... I officially give up on hair dressers, as of today! If i even hint a ill go back any of yall have permission to come across and knock me out witha 2x4! Im soooooo sAd. The hair feels weird. Brushing i hear snap snap, my fingrs dont go thru it well and then it occured to me, the woman didnt wash out all the conditioner, hats why its stickyish and my hair is fine so yep, disaster city. I took a pair of scisssors and cut some split ends i found today and some ssks which btw i had verrrry few of prior to my salon visit. I tipped them 10 dollars, smiled and got out of there. Thats the last money a hairdresser will get from me, im done. Next time im too tired i need to find a scarf, tie this thing up and call it a day!
Im trying to revive it, nexxus poly medic emergencee, honestly my hair feels terrible :-( :-( :'-(
I hope yall are having a better week than i am.... Sigh