I like dating guys about 10 years older. I'm in my late 20's. Guys in their late 30's tend to have lived enough to have figured out that the "bachelor life" is actually quite boring & unfulfilling. They are usually more mature, have their own place & aren't into playing games. This is obviously a generalization & doesn't always apply to all. (Ironically, the guy I'm currently dating is only 1 year older than I am & he's great... Go figure, lol.)
However, I think it's a little different for a girl in her early 20s. I think it's really important for a woman to come into her own & get to know herself before getting too serious with a guy. Live on her own. Pay her own bills. Become thoroughly rooted in & aware of her own feelings.
A guy 10 years older than a woman who hasn't come into her own and doesn't know exactly who she is could have too much influence & control over the way she develops and matures.
If she's looking to date & have a good time. Great. Have fun. If she's looking for a long term relationship, I think she'd be better off with a guy closer to her age.
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