MissMeWithThatIsh
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People always said marriage is different than shacking up with your SO.
Tomorrow is my 1year marriage anniversary and got-darned if I don't understand how different it is. It's weird because I want to explain it to you guys, but I can't. It's a really subtle shift, I guess, where the psyche says, "You know you can't just turn your back on this just cause he pissed you off today right?"
Now, granted, DH and I got married in a rushed arrangement pre-deployment, and had planned to marry anyway (even if after), but I never really agreed with that theory... until now.
Can anyone relate?
Tomorrow is my 1year marriage anniversary and got-darned if I don't understand how different it is. It's weird because I want to explain it to you guys, but I can't. It's a really subtle shift, I guess, where the psyche says, "You know you can't just turn your back on this just cause he pissed you off today right?"
Now, granted, DH and I got married in a rushed arrangement pre-deployment, and had planned to marry anyway (even if after), but I never really agreed with that theory... until now.
Can anyone relate?