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I confess that I have been neglecting my hair this week. I'm getting bored with twists even though I know its a great protective style and maintains moisture levels I need change. I put my hair in a pony puff for the first time and it actually looked nice.

I have been doing well with using up my products and not buying anymore, but I've been to stingy to give away some of the extra since I haven't tried it all yet.

I want to get my hair evened out but I don't want to lose the length I've gained. I'm tired of my lope-sided hair especially when I wear twists.
 
I confess sewins make me hair lazy, and that Ive yet to develop a consistent regimen after 9 months of LHCF :nono:
 
sigh. i miss my beautiful, manageable natural hair. in dec i will be ten months post. i don't know how much longer i can wait.​
 
Songbirdb said:
Speaking of boyfriends and hair, my EX boyfriend doesn't like me wearing wigs or straightening my hair. I thought that was a pretty cool thing at first, because he loves when I rock my fro and he is so against the good hair/bad hair debate (he believes good hair is healthy hair, not texture). So after coming home from the movies last night, I was telling him how I'm obsessed with the music artist Lloyd beause he has a lovely voice, but I'm not attracted to him because he's too skinny and I don't like men with long hair and he says "Yeah, because you wouldn't want to date a man with better hair than you." Then he got silent with the "Oh Shyt" look on his face and tried to explain himself. I just told him to leave it alone because he'd only make things worse *sigh* (I thought I had a keeper, hence the words EX Boyfriend) lol
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Talk about bold....







My confession is that I don't care about Thanksgiving, Christmas or my birthday (January 17), because all I look forward to in the near future is my next touch up (January 9...ish). :grin:
 
Call me nasty if you want but until june 2010 if i have nothing to do for the month im not washing my hair at all

im leaving my hair alone seriously i will wash only once a month or once every month and a half and if i feel my hair id dirty i will use listerine on my scalp im prepared i bought the huge bottle
 
Not the listerine. :lachen:

But I definitely think you can do it with monthly washing and low-manipulation. Are you going to bun?
 
CurlyNue said:
I confess your ex boyfriend aint got the sense God gave him. Who in their right mind tells someone they care about that the man on TV has better hair? Can I take this message to mean that you stopped dating this man last night? I want to imagine that you got off the couch, got this fool his coat, opened the door and waited patiently for him to bring you some peace as he left your home. Rudeness!
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LoL! Actually we were already broken up, he's just trying his best to "court" me again because he wants to be back with me. But his attempts are definately not working, especially because he says something extremely rude and stupid everytime he opens his mouth....
 
I confess that I don't know how to style my natural hair in any style but the puff. I've tried braidouts and twistsouts and the only thing that looks good is the puff. I'm afraid that I will be rockin the puff for the rest of my natural life...
 
I confess that I always thought the "problem" with stretching was merely an aversion to seeing napps. Now, at 8 weeks post, I understand that its way more serious than that: I'm constantly petrified that my hair is going to break off at the new growth if I touch it too much. :look:
 
Songbirdb said:
I confess that I don't know how to style my natural hair in any style but the puff. I've tried braidouts and twistsouts and the only thing that looks good is the puff. I'm afraid that I will be rockin the puff for the rest of my natural life...
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Time to learn! :grin: I have a playlist of youtube videos that are styling tutorials. I'll link you, if you want.
 
I confess that I just planned to leave work at 6:30, but I sat here an additional hour reading this thread cause it was just too entertaining!

Ok.. I confess that I am scared that my hair will never grow to my goal of MBL. Heck, I am not even a full CBL... I get soo discouraged.

I also confess that I have hair envy of the girls on the board who have thick pretty MBL hair..

I also confess that I have been soo lazy with my hair lately. Before you couldn't catch me in a pony tail. Now that I am almost 11 months post, I am loving my NG and the wave pattern (or whatever pattern it is). My hair has been in this same bun for four days, and I havent touched it. Only to apply Shea moisture and eco styler gel to lay it back down in the morning. I am scared of what I am gonna find when I take it down to wash it.:nono::nono::nono:
 
I confess that when I'm reading the FoTM thingy, and the featured lady mentions that she uses one of the products that I consider a staple, I get mad excited. My heart starts beating fast and everything.
 
I confess that I'm embarrassed. I flat-ironed part of my hair and gave up. I looked like a mild Mr. Glass

I confess I ponytailed it

I confess that I need a professional to do this.
 
i confess that from time to time I get bored and just rub my nails together because i heard it supposed to stimulate hair growth :lol:. I don't do it often, but when I think about it. I usually don't believe stuff like that, but if i'm sitting at a red light, why not.
 
amazing said:
i confess that from time to time I get bored and just rub my nails together because i heard it supposed to stimulate hair growth :lol:. I don't do it often, but when I think about it. I usually don't believe stuff like that, but if i'm sitting at a red light, why not.
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really???:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
i'm enjoying running my fingers through my hair and resting them on my scalp, cuz right now my fingers are really cold, and my scalp is nice and warm. :lol:
 
I confess
I don't love my hair so much, she doesn't listen. I want to fight. :nono:
I look at my hair and wonder how the heck it hasn't reached wl, it's been two years.
I think it's going to stay mbl forever.
I feel discouraged sometimes, like seriously. Hair why don't you want to work with me at all. T___T
I wish I was finished transitioning. It's going to take forever.
I can't stand that the front of my hair is frizzy, it couldn't be curly, wavy or straight like the rest of my hair?
I want to be weave checked oneday. :/
 
i've tex'd my hair but didn't really want to post. i always get single strand knots/split ends while natural. i'm addicted to shears but am tired of cutting my hair off. i wish i was on on my way to apl right now instead of a twa. i want long hair. maybe i should tell dh to hide them.
 
I haven't put a drop of product in my hair since wash day - 6 days ago. My hair is still moisturized. whooopp whooopp!
 
I bought 3 bottles of Gueye Fast Hair Growth Oil and I have spent $100 on various haor products this month....*sigh*
 
i just cant get enough of oyin. everytime i back away here it comes again.
today is wash day and im excited.
 
Mine is going to be long.

- I wish I would have told the lady who was sporting a BAA in Wal-mart that I loved her hair. I felt so bad because I could see so many people giving her the evil eye, but she was working it from head to toe with her head held high.

- I need to get better at being able to tell if someone's hair is their own or not. I don't want to walk up to someone, say I like your hair and then either be told it's not theirs or get a stank eye. So I'll just look from afar, unless I see one of Nikos' cousin.

- I won't tell my sisters about LHCF...well not until I reach my goal.

- I love the fact that my sister A is going to keep my niece natural until she's old enough to decide what she wants to do with her hair.

- My nephew has awesome hair. I wish the sister B would listen when I tell her about his hair. OT he reminds me of a mini Josh Koscheck from the UFC. Plus I hate the fact that she tells him he has good hair. Now he walks around saying that and he's only 3 :wallbash:

- I'm ready for the holidays so I can flat iron my hair with either some GVP CSI, or some Argan oil and flaunt my hair in front of the family. I can't wait for sister A to not be the hair guru any more :grin:

- I love the fact that my 78 year old grandma did a BC on a whim after my aunt did hers. Since I can remember she's always worn wigs since her hair was so damaged, and now she doesn't anymore. She threw them all away and for that I think she's gansta. :grin:

- I'm paranoid about having children in the future. Since I finally know how to take care of hair now if I have a little girl I'm scared someone will try to do something to her hair. All you can do is either sue someone or accept the other person getting suspended... you can't choke them or their parents :look:.

- Last one I need to get a trim badly. The last time was in 06' :blush: but I don't want to tell someone off if I end up with a hair cut instead. I need to find a decent salon in the grand ol' city of Columbia.
 
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Well, I must confess:

1. That I co-wash both of my sons' hair at least five times a week and I refuse to cut it because I love seeing my efforts flourish.

2. I want long hair because it's rare amongst the black community.

3. I can't wait to have other black females envy my hair.

4. I overly obsess about hair way to much, upon wakening, a countless number of times during the day, and I lay in bed thinking of the possible lengths and styles I could have.

5. I don't get a darn thing done when I'm on this site. I mean nothing. Some days I have to force myself not to turn on the computer.

6. I constantly fondle and molest my ng while in braids....well hell out of braids too.
 
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