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Msa, you are truly as beautiful as you are wise. I always enjoy reading your comments. I honestly had no idea how young you are because you speak with the wisdom of someone much older.
 
MSA, you are so young and vibrant! You, speak, wise beyond your years and so matter of fact, I love it...I thought you were older because of it.

I love your luscious hair and beautiful skin!

I agree it is good to see a face!
 
I'm mad at y'all for wondering if she was ugly! :lol:

She's just loopy, apparently. :lachen::lachen:

Okay, I'll shut up now and stop putting adding anything that might be embarrassing. :lol:
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I know terrible right. But I agree with what you said in your post above. I thought that before you said it. You, MSA have an "exotic" look about your features. I don't want to be objectifying you but you do have a different look. You are also taller than average, intelligent, and not about a lot of BS. Sad to say, but I think it's safe and familiar for the young Cali guys to hang with the "Spanish" girly girls. Hmmmm................. Like it or not you'll have to tap in to you inner exotic Goddess :lachen:
 
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Seriously I appreciate all the comments everyone. I don't even really know what to say other than thank you and big hugs to everyone!

Somebody tagged MSA as "beyonce" :giggle:
Awww suki suki now!!

Yeah that one was kind of random.

Lawd, The Cali threads are sooo bad, I'm like Lord, What is I gon do?

I do feel like that a lot but I'm working on creating new positive experiences here to replace my negative outlook on the la dating scene.


I agree. I've been wondering what the front of MSA looked like.

And you know what? That did not sound right.

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Msa, you are truly as beautiful as you are wise. I always enjoy reading your comments. I honestly had no idea how young you are because you speak with the wisdom of someone much older.


MSA, you are so young and vibrant! You, speak, wise beyond your years and so matter of fact, I love it...I thought you were older because of it.

I love your luscious hair and beautiful skin!

I agree it is good to see a face!

I would never consider myself wise so thank you for that both of you. I am 23, which is young, so there are still some things I'm working on (uh, tact :look:). I'm trying to progress but sometimes I just can't help myself.

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I know terrible right. But I agree with what you said in your post above. I thought that before you said it. You, MSA have an "exotic" look about your features. I don't want to be objectifying you but you do have a different look. You are also taller than average, intelligent, and not about a lot of BS. Sad to say, but I think it's safe and familiar for the young Cali guys to hang with the "Spanish" girly girls. Hmmmm................. Like it or not you'll have to tap in to you inner exotic Goddess :lachen:

I think I've said before somewhere that I stand out from the crowd physically. I've always gone to school with shorter, thinner, paler, longer haired girls. So obviously a dark skinned, afro wearing, tall, big chick is going to look a bit "unfamiliar". And maybe that's part of the reason I don't get approached here. I'm sure it's a combination of things but that seems to be one of them.


Lookin' all innocent :).....Beautiful skin (flawless) and hair (rockin' tha' fro') -

Yes, I am innocent:look:.
 
You're welcome MSA?

How tall are you? I ask because it reminds me my sister and I. She is 6'2, afro puff wearing and thick (for some reason Mexican guys love her!) Guys that approach her are always shorter than her. Her husband is 6'. I on the other hand am almost 5'6 and my dh is 6'6" and tall guys always approach me. (I get approached by white guys A LOT and brothers that I am old enough to have given birth to or they are old enough to be my grandpa) We talk and laugh about it all the time!
 
Please don't let the dating scene in California get you down. :bighug:

Our opinions may not always align, but I absolutely adore your decorum and respect for others when discussing an issue as sensitive as hair. :yep:

Perfect skin doesn't hurt either....:look:
 
Hey MSA ! :hiya2:

Now I have a Face to put with All that Wonderful Helpful Advice you Offer. You have been a Wealth of Knowledge. And always so Helpful and Informative. An Encourager and a Inspiration.

And you will always "help" to Find an Answer for Everything.:yep:

Quoted for truth. :)

You are a great asset to this board msa - keep on doing what your doing, nevermind folks who want to try and be negative.

As everyone else has said your skin looks fabulous - must be all the natural products huh? :yep:
 
^^^^ Thanks y'all!

You're welcome MSA.

How tall are you? I ask because it reminds me my sister and I. She is 6'2, afro puff wearing and thick (for some reason Mexican guys love her!) Guys that approach her are always shorter than her. Her husband is 6'. I on the other hand am almost 5'6 and my dh is 6'6" and tall guys always approach me. (I get approached by white guys A LOT and brothers that I am old enough to have given birth to or they are old enough to be my grandpa) We talk and laugh about it all the time!

Oh wow, I'm not nearly as tall as your sister. I'm about 5'8" and with heels I'm usually just about 6 feet tall. I wish short guys or tall guys or some guys at all approached me LOL. What I have noticed is that it seems like guys tend to like "petite" women...doesn't necessarily mean short...just that they take up less space.

I make a lot of generalizations about men, which is so against my general life principles, and I still can't say for sure what the issue really is. Could be I'm too dark, or too tall, or too fat, or too loud, or too nappy, or I exude bad vibes, or I just don't seem inviting enough. It could be anything really. I find it weird that I don't get approached at all, but if I keep trying to analyze every little thing I'll go crazy. I'm just going to focus on the positive.
 
wth!!!!!!! MSA u had me thinking u looked like a freakin angry faced natural hair not combed troll:lol:
u r pretty! almost glowing!! your hair looks soo cute.
 
^^^^ Thanks y'all!



Oh wow, I'm not nearly as tall as your sister. I'm about 5'8" and with heels I'm usually just about 6 feet tall. I wish short guys or tall guys or some guys at all approached me LOL. What I have noticed is that it seems like guys tend to like "petite" women...doesn't necessarily mean short...just that they take up less space.

I make a lot of generalizations about men, which is so against my general life principles, and I still can't say for sure what the issue really is. Could be I'm too dark, or too tall, or too fat, or too loud, or too nappy, or I exude bad vibes, or I just don't seem inviting enough. It could be anything really. I find it weird that I don't get approached at all, but if I keep trying to analyze every little thing I'll go crazy. I'm just going to focus on the positive.

:yep:men also sense insecurity and withdrawal.
 
wth!!!!!!! MSA u had me thinking u looked like a freakin angry faced natural hair not combed troll:lol:
u r pretty! almost glowing!! your hair looks soo cute.


:lachen:Thanks.

I'm dying over here. I think a lot of people thought the same thing.

:yep:men also sense insecurity and withdrawal.

Yup, I agree. And I think it's pretty obvious that I'm insecure :look:. I also am sure that I appear closed off to people, even if it's just from my body language.

I'm definitely trying to address it though. I'm a work in progress.
 
^^^^ Thanks y'all!



Oh wow, I'm not nearly as tall as your sister. I'm about 5'8" and with heels I'm usually just about 6 feet tall. I wish short guys or tall guys or some guys at all approached me LOL. What I have noticed is that it seems like guys tend to like "petite" women...doesn't necessarily mean short...just that they take up less space.

I make a lot of generalizations about men, which is so against my general life principles, and I still can't say for sure what the issue really is. Could be I'm too dark, or too tall, or too fat, or too loud, or too nappy, or I exude bad vibes, or I just don't seem inviting enough. It could be anything really. I find it weird that I don't get approached at all, but if I keep trying to analyze every little thing I'll go crazy. I'm just going to focus on the positive.

Ok, I see! I understand re the "petite/less room"...that would describe me (small bone structure/125 lbs). My brother is the opposite of dh, he won't date a woman unless she is 5'8" and...ahem...got SOME meat on her bones (for lack of a good description). Oh well...

Sylver2 makes a good point.

We all need to continue working on ourselves...right? I say don't over analyze and just do you...that is ALWAYS the best way.

You need a strong man who can "Meet you in the mind", when you meet/marry him you will probably be a "Power" couple. I think men know when they can't "Handle it" and KIM!?

It'll happen...
 
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:giggle: My girl!!!! revealed!

Ahhhh another person who can attest to the fact that I really am a nice person, even though I'm definitely a bit loopy.

Ok, I see!

Sylver2 makes a good point.

We all need to continue working on ourselves...right? I say don't over analyze and just do you...that is ALWAYS the best way.

You need a strong man who can "Meet you in the mind", when you meet/marry him you will probably be a "Power" couple. I think men know when they can't "Handle it" and KIM!?

It'll happen...

You are so right.

I'm just gonna chill and be the best me I can. That's really the only way to live.
 
Ahhhh another person who can attest to the fact that I really am a nice person, even though I'm definitely a bit loopy.



You are so right.

I'm just gonna chill and be the best me I can. That's really the only way to live.

*wink* Good to hear!
 
Ahhhh another person who can attest to the fact that I really am a nice person, even though I'm definitely a bit loopy.

You are honestly one of the kindest and most warmhearted and welcoming individuals I have ever met. I think what stood out is that you were like that right off the bat. :yep:
 
I have to agree with the other ladies MSA, you are beautiful. Actually you remind me of one of my closest friends.
I think I've seen a face pic of you before when you first joined, in your avatar. You didn't post much then.
 
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