A Mans Opinion

[mj11051]

So I go to the store this morning for coffee filters, gotta have my morning joe Anyway this man was in their and he ask me why did I do that to my hair? And I asked him do what to my hair. He said it's nappy and no man wants a women with nappy hair I just smile at him and said my hubby loves my hair as is and as long as he's phucking me your opinion really don't matter. Now you have a wonderfully blessed Sir He look at me and stfu.

 

[E. Princess]

MJ, he couldn't do anything but pick up his jaw.

 

[Loves Harmony]

People are a trip... I get that comment from a few friends, but like i explain to them i dont roll over next to you in the morning lol lol. You dont have to like it nor look at it.

 

[MoniintheMiddle]

I cannot believe he had the nerve to open his mouth to say that to you.
However, you did get his %$&^!

 

[FluffyRed]

It makes me sad, the level of programming some of our people have accepted.

Jim Crow really seems to have won some people over.

When I hear a man talk like this, I can't decide if he is more weak-minded or stupid. Either way, naps are a filter, baby!!

Your hair is beautiful.

 

[Kiki82]

LOLOL you tell him!!! I know his face was on the floor!!!

 

[TaraDyan]

So I go to the store this morning for coffee filters, gotta have my morning joe Anyway this man was in their and he ask me why did I do that to my hair? And I asked him do what to my hair. He said it's nappy and no man wants a women with nappy hair I just smile at him and said my hubby loves my hair as is and as long as he's phucking me your opinion really don't matter. Now you have a wonderfully blessed Sir He look at me and stfu.

Love it!! Not only did you roast him, you finished it off with a "have a blessed day". Now that's gangsta!

 

[MoniintheMiddle]

So I go to the store this morning for coffee filters, gotta have my morning joe Anyway this man was in their and he ask me why did I do that to my hair? And I asked him do what to my hair. He said it's nappy and no man wants a women with nappy hair I just smile at him and said my hubby loves my hair as is and as long as he's phucking me your opinion really don't matter. Now you have a wonderfully blessed Sir He look at me and stfu.

BTW, I see you are in Chicago, can you send me some Harolds!!!

 

[MochaSilk]

Oh, to be a fly on the wall for that!!! You're my she-ro!!!

It never ceases to amaze me how people can be so cruel to someone they don't know. What dark hearts people reveal over something that has no bearing over their own quality of life.

 

[Eclass215]

HA!!! Exactly! I mean, who says that to somebody!? What is wrong with people.

Don't you know that is part of the reason I went natural the way I did. My dad said to me "men don't like women with short hair - it's not sexy". I said "oh really?" Then I went and cut my hair down to 1/2 inch long and said "Now what!?" I still got plenty of dates and boyfriends - hair has never stopped me and ignorance won't stop me either!

 

[mj11051]

BTW, I see you are in Chicago, can you send me some Harolds!!!

Sure where should I send it too

 

[mj11051]

He was an older man and I didn't really mean to be rude and disrespectful. But I was like damn if you don't my hair say that, instead trying to tell me I can't get a man. Hell I got a man.

 

[lexi84]

 

[bravenewgirl87]

I would've just let out a big, "**** please! You couldn't even be touched by an angel and you got nerve to talk?"

 

[MochaSilk]

He was an older man and I didn't really mean to be rude and disrespectful. But I was like damn if you don't my hair say that, instead trying to tell me I can't get a man. Hell I got a man.

See, that makes it worse in my opinion. As a person gets older, you'd think they'd learn to exercise tact and decorum. At least for the reason we never know the mental state of anyone at any given moment. People are crazy these days. I hate to admit it, but I hope he rolls up on someone with that nonsense and catches a beatdown.

 

[lovenharmony]

The nerve of some people! I'm glad you put him in his place

 

[LilBrownied]

Oh, to be a fly on the wall for that!!! You're my she-ro!!!

It never ceases to amaze me how people can be so cruel to someone they don't know. What dark hearts people reveal over something that has no bearing over their own quality of life.

So true
But you shut him up anyway!!!

 

[Lynnerie]

I'm glad you got him told. But i still wonder where do people get off just saying stuff like that? Did he think your feelings were going to be hurt? Did he think that he was going to make you change your mind about your hair? Shyt! he dont pay your bills... and even if he did... ITS YOUR HAIR.

People trip me out!

 

[MizzBrown]

What's sad is that while this MAN was saying it, so many WOMEN look at our "nappy" hair and THINK the same way.

You think women be lookin' at you admiring your hair cause they keep staring at it when they could be thinkin the same things that the man said.

Tis life.

And its funny how old folks think they can say whatever the hell they want to younger folks and not have us talk back. I'd curse out a 65 yr old in a min if u come at me disrespectful too!

 

[naturalgurl]

Right on sista'!

 

[naturalgurl]

What's sad is that while this MAN was saying it, so many WOMEN look at our "nappy" hair and THINK the same way.

You think women be lookin' at you admiring your hair cause they keep staring at it when they could be thinkin the same things that the man said.

Tis life.

And its funny how old folks think they can say whatever the hell they want to younger folks and not have us talk back. I'd curse out a 65 yr old in a min if u come at me disrespectful too!

You gots to give to get...that's just my motto. Don't give a damn how long you've been here, that just means you should know better!

 

[Ms Lala]

BTW, I see you are in Chicago, can you send me some Harolds!!!

Girl I love Harolds. Everytime I go home I get some!!!

OP- He was way out of line, but you got alot of crazy folks in CHicago, they'll say whatever. He probably doesn't even have woman!

 

[BillsBackerz67]

ha! and the same man that has the nerve to comment on how bad ur hair looks is probably single and wacks off at home every night ALONE. Im glad that you put him in his place

 

[mj11051]

But here's the thing my hair doesn't look bad. I have it in 2 strand twist and it's very cute and neat. He was just mad because the arab men were telling me they really liked my hairstyle. Old geezer.

 

[LongCurlyLocks]

He was an older man and I didn't really mean to be rude and disrespectful. But I was like damn if you don't my hair say that, instead trying to tell me I can't get a man. Hell I got a man.

No, screw that, he shouldn't have put himself out there like that! And you'd think since he's old school he'd have more manners/better hometraining than that. I swear some of these older people are more rude that the younger generation. I was raised old school by my grandmother, so I know how things should go. I've had more older people bump me, not say excuse me or thank you than a little bit. I had a two year old say Hi, excuse me..' in the store one day. She was trying to get by. I made sure I told her momma thank you for teaching the girl manners cuz old and grown folks don't have them anymore.

BTW: That was funny as HELL!! I would have loved to been there!!!

 

[MonPetite]

Well done.

His comment is quite telling, however.

Imagine if he had said that to a young teen though, who had just BCed?

How this thread could be one of sadness and defeat instead of laughter.

I would've been crushed at fifteen if someone told me that (I was taught to mind adults and take their word very seriously) back when I had a "wash and wear" relaxer.

I'm glad you handled it so well. Husband or not, I'm sure you would've walked away the "winner" of that round.

 

[cocoberry10]

I'm so glad you soiled his arse! The nerve of him to actually think he had the right to come up to you, a complete stranger and speak to you like that!

 

[bermudabeauty]

OMG he was off the chain!

 

[Irresistible]

Love it!! Not only did you roast him, you finished it off with a "have a blessed day". Now that's gangsta!

what she said!!!

 

[Leesh]

He is evidently a person who does not respect people as individuals, and also a person who has tunnel vision on a particular type of female, (his type of female!) which leaves his chances of finding the perfect woman a little slim to none. Good Luck to Him finding some one to ph*&% him, Hon!