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I don't shop at AA, but if they want Black girls with natural hair I see nothing wrong with that. As for the "trashy" Black girls he's talking about. . .come on. . .we know he's talking about da hood ratz.
I'm not really sure how you got that from what I said.![]()
Thus, there's a level of class bias being interwoven in this construction of natural hair as being "classy" and straight hair being "trashy."
Perhaps the reason that the straight hair is considered "trashy" is because of the condition that the women working there are leaving it in.
----------------------------------------------------------------We need only take a walk down the street and see how some Black women wear relaxed hair to know that a level of ignorance persists regarding how to properly take care of, and style, relaxed hair.
I'm saying that perhaps the reason for the policy is because the women in the store with straight hair had chewed up ends, etc. the way that a lot of women who don't know how to take care of their hair have hair that looks, well, not that great. By referencing other people, I mean only to suggest that we see evidence of this in our every day lives. In other words, perhaps the reason for the policy is because of the condition that their straight hair was in. In no way, shape or form am I saying that straight hair is trashy or that it has implicit negative connotations.
The bottom line is that even if their desires for Black hair are aligned with my own preferences, their motives are less than pure. They're not doing it because they embrace Black women in all their natural beauty; they're doing it because they're looking out for their bottom line and because of the assumptions underlying natural hair. It smacks of a paternalistic model of imposing their standards of beauty on others. And we already know that they're well versed in that, given the accounts of current and former disgruntled employees.
If you don't like it don't shop there. If it really grinds your gears that much maybe you need to reevaluate why YOU relax/texlax your hair.
What do the sales people who shop there generally look like? Are they similar in shape, age, hair style, etc.?
Oh, is that how they get around it? Calling the sales people models and interviews as "castings?" People are so cleaver....
I'm gonna finger wave my hair and get some waterfalls in the back then apply for a job there. If they don't hire me, I'm going to sue them for discrimination.
I remember a white girl in college telling me that a store she worked at back home did this. IIRC it was Abercrombie or Hollister. You had to be white, tanned, certain type of hair, build, etc. She said they had to have a certain "look" down to their choice of fingernail polish. I'm not surprised that AA does this but on the flip side I'm not even sure how to feel about this whole situation. I do think more people would be upset if the tables were turned though.
From my understanding, it's not just the models on the website. It includes the workers on the store and Ive seen plenty of 3cs,4as as I've walked past the store on campus or at the malls.
Well let's just say hair that can be styled in a way that appears natural. I still don't think the analogy fits because straight hair is a superficial beauty choice a woman makes, whether it's through a relaxer or press. Straight hair is not inherent in black women. To me, it would be similar to a company saying, "For our caucasian models, we only want natural hair colors...no bleach blondes."
To the bolded, I don't see this as discrimination, because again, it's a superficial choice. It's not discrimination to not want to hire a person who chose to get several visible tattoos or pink hair or 5 nose rings. Nor is it discrimination to not hire someone because they chose to wear their kinky hair straight. I might not even argue if a company preferred no braids, or twists, or locs. But they can't not hire me because my hair is kinky, because that is the state of being for my hair, just like my brown skin or my height or size. IMHO
Seems hypocritical to be angry when one hair style is discriminated against and ambivalent when it occurs to another.
Seems hypocritical to be upset when one hairstyle is insulted and ambivalent when another is insulted.
Otherwise, it's pretty hard to be sympathetic when people are called nappy headed when those same people shrug their shoulders when black girls with straight hair are called trashy.
Would ya'll have voted for Obama if he had ceiling length hair in plaits that looked like Coolio? Just askin......
And would it be wrong if he lost simply because he had ceiling length hair in plaits?
BTW did she ever come back to that thread? lol
^^^^I dont think its insulting for employers to have a preference for how they want their employees to look UNLESS its race based.
I went back to re-read the article and it didnt say that strait hair was trashy. They said they didnt want the segment of black women that are considered trashy, you know Bonquisha with the Kool-Aide Man stenciled in her hair with a million colors and 10 inch nails, ect ect ect. If they dont want to sell to that segment fine, thats on them and its their right, but they didnt say that strait hair = trashy.The insult was to say trashy with regards to black women with straight hair. I view trashy as an insult.
I dont know if this counts.. But I've visted in the NYC AA shops..and I see both straight and kinky/curly (natural) work in AA. They all had to be able to carry a certain look to be able to work there. Also the article is very vague. He doesnt "say". He just chose certain words and left it to anyones imagination.
I know for me. I dont think of women who have perms as trashy. Especially when it comes down to retail. You just have to look presentable.
But it does explain of why I saw young men with washbord abs at Abercrombie & Fitch hanging outside welcoming people in. I'm afraid to go in there... Can't handle the sex apple.
Sorry deviating a bit...
IMO, discriminating against relaxed hair is silly. But generally, people hire who they want based on their personal feelings all the time. I've been hired several times by men I know found me attractive.
BTW, the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders have had a member with an afro (at least one) -- back in the 70s.
And dare I say it? Dare I say it DARE I SAY IT but fros were very fashionable and the "in" thing to wear back then. Until the Jheri Curl stomped onto the scene that is.The 70s? Really?C'mon I'm sure since the 80s, when weaves became more accessible hiring women with an afro went out of the window. Considering this is 2010, if I auditioned now, considering I had every other qualification, my afro would stop me, or I would be told to weave it up when the season started.
And dare I say it? Dare I say it DARE I SAY IT but fros were very fashionable and the "in" thing to wear back then. Until the Jheri Curl stomped onto the scene that is.
I went back to re-read the article and it didnt say that strait hair was trashy. They said they didnt want the segment of black women that are considered trashy, you know Bonquisha with the Kool-Aide Man stenciled in her hair with a million colors and 10 inch nails, ect ect ect. If they dont want to sell to that segment fine, thats on them and its their right, but they didnt say that strait hair = trashy.
“none of the trashy kind that come in, we don’t want that. we’re not trying to sell our clothes to them. try to find some of these classy black girls, with nice hair, you know?”
and at one point instructed me to tell two of my employees (both of whom happened to be black females) to stop straightening their hair.
I just didnt read all that from what was presented. If we look hard enough we can find insult in everything we see, ya know? I this case I dont see it.I think this is where it becomes subjective. You're right, they didn't straight out say straight hair is trashy, but that's the meaning I take away from it and I based my comments on that meaning. They don't come right out and say anything about Boomqueesha types either, we're guessing about that too.
Don't hire the trashy kind that come, only hire the classy ones with nice hair. And then later on someone says that black girls were told to stop straightening their hair.
The whole thing is full of innuendo and gossip and can't really be dissected because it's so vague and rumor-filled, but I was basing my comments on the title of the thread and the idea that AA was calling straight haired black girls trashy.
I guess we'll never know if AA actually called black girls with straight hair trashy or if anything posted in that blog post ever took place.
I just didnt read all that from what was presented. If we look hard enough we can find insult in everything we see, ya know? I this case I dont see it.
No you did not bring the curl in this?But yes I agree, I'm sure they probably had some women with non overly juiced curls back in the 80s. And now if they do have women with their natural hair, I can guarantee it's not in a big kinky afro, probably 3a-3b texture.
so if I am having my TOM and I am in a tee-shirt and sweats with my hair tied down, what is preventing a yt manager from making that judgement that I am one of those hoodrats when all I am doing is shopping and minding my business? What because my hair is real? Am I supposed to pull out my degrees and prove that I'm not a hoodrat? Lol (hypothetical situation)
anyway, I reread the article and it was one persons account (the hair thing). The whole article is disturbing though. It may just be an unofficial rule.
This thread is so interesting.
I think if it were natural hair being discriminated against there would be a lot more anger. Seems hypocritical to be angry when one hair style is discriminated against and ambivalent when it occurs to another. Seems like the phrase divide and conquer applies here. How about we stand up for both natural and straight until we reach a place where both are equally accepted and black women don't have to deal with so much meaning being attached to their hairstyle.
Otherwise, it's pretty hard to be sympathetic when people are called nappy headed when those same people shrug their shoulders when black girls with straight hair are called trashy.
I didn't get that straight hair = trashy. They clearly don't have a problem with straight hair from looking at their models.
When I hear trashy, I automatically think of the multicolored weaves and tacky plastic looking hair.
I wouldn't hire anyone who looked like that to work for me either.
If this is your idea of going to a job interview, which this thread is about, for a job where you have to work with the public and be the image of the store while you are working, then it would not bother me a bit if you did not get hired. And if you cared so much that some random person in a random store cares about what you look like one day out of the year, then simply don't walk out of the house not looking how you normally look. I make errands looking messed up if I am sick/tired/in a rush/whatever and people can stare all they want. The people who matter in my life, including those who have a say in giving me a job, know I am not trashy.
I am in the camp that people are making a bigger deal about it than it is. Dov is not a good human being, I know that, but nowhere does it say or imply that he himself said anything about the hair of the "models" or salespeople or whatever. It named one person in charge of a district. I was ripped off once by Domino's Pizza, should I blame the person who created it? Should I suddenly think Wal-Mart is a great company because I have heard a couple employees who love working there? No and no. Nowhere does the article even imply that this is an official rule that black girls had to stop straightening their hair. Again, it was said by the district manager. The fact that the person who sent that in mused about Dov leads people to think he said anything. If Dov hated relaxed hair so much then darker-complected girls with straight hair would not be modeling clothes on his site.
Second, everyone making this a "black" thing, you have no idea if anyone has told a non-black employee to straighten or not straighten their hair. The linked article specifically talked about black women probably for a purpose, just as it was obviously worded to make it sound like two separate incidents were related and that someone else people already find reprehensible is to blame. In fact, the linked article talked about another girl with "bad hair" and a nose ring not being hired, and I think it is as safe to assume this girl was not black as it would be to assume she was. Considering this bit came before talking about black girls, I am going to assume she was not black. So the store has something against people with bad hair. This is bad how?
I bet anyone here can search for posts where a member complains or makes fun of the appearance of customer service employees in stores, so what is the problem with a company trying to filter these people out?
Third, this ain't new. I consider it just natural the only employees I have seen working at Lane Bryant are overweight women and gay men. And not just gay men, but the "there is no doubt I am gay" men. I consider it natural that all the waitresses at Hooters (do they even hire waiters? I've never been in one) are thin and have larger busts. They have an image to sell, and that's okay. Considering that AA is going out of business, it shows their particular business model wasn't working out, anyway.
I could understand if, like L'Oreal, they explicitly stated a preference for race. Or if the trashy, yes trashy, black women they are trying to avoid were described in a reprehensible way, like, "don't hire those ghetto Boomquisha Shaniqua Gonorrhea Jackson types with three inches of jacked-up hair and an entire mouth full of gold teef and those loud, fake nails" or something. Then we are in a whole new territory.