Thank you momi. Yes, I have shared my feelings with my father several times but he just puts it off as the devil in my heart or working in me. He never sees anything wrong with what he's doing ever. My mother, brother, and sister have felt the same way as me, but I'm the only one that's really vocal about it. So he just makes it like I'm the only one with the problem.
There have been times that he has gone as far to say that people are being disobedient to God if they don't listen and do what he says. I just totally disagree with that. It's almost like he's making himself out to be God even though he will not admit it. He'll just say something like "well, I'm almost like God since He speaks through me and gives me visions as the overseer of the church." And if you point out something wrong that he does, he'll cover it up with something else. For example, he gossips big time about some church members. If I or one of my immediate family members says, "You shouldn't gossip", he'll say, "I'm not, I'm just having a Christian discussion."
And he talks about tithing and giving every single day to the point that it makes me not want to give to the church anymore. He gets upset when the amount collected is low and he doesn't realized that most of the people at our church are either low income, poor, unemployed, and do not make as much money as him. See, my dad has a regular 8-5 job outside of his pastoring job. Combined, my parents gross over $100,000 and he complains about people not giving or not giving enough or giving the amount he wants them to give.
He also thinks his church is the only righteous church of God. He talks bad about other churches that he hasn't even attended.
On Saturdays at noon, our church feed the homeless or whoever wants to get fed in the community. I probably go once a month to help out. The last time I went was the Saturday before last. Yesterday, he tried to makes a smart comment like "You should have been there. We had a lot of people to feed." And sometimes he'll go as far to say if you don't come to every ministry of the church, then you're not of God and you're not exercising your faith. And he doesn't realize I do A LOT for the church already... handle the finances, work with the youth 2 days or more out of the week, and more.