scorpiogirl112184
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okay here's my situation all my life i and my whole family have attend the same church now over the years a lot of my family have left this church for a numerous reasons (started pastoring they own churches, found a good church near their house and other reasons) so now the church just consist of the pastor, his wife, his son, one church mother two of my dad's aunts, the assist. pastor and his wife, my dad mom, brother, sister, and me. Everyone but my dad, mom, and sibiling are over the age of 65 and this church is very very strict, no going to the movies, women must wear long skirts at all times, no christmas trees, no dating unless you plan on getting married to that person stuff like that. my brother have found a wonderful church with alot of young people our age (he's 18 and i'm 20) and recently join they a choir have a youth group go on trips etc. i have went with him almost every sunday for the last two month and want to join. The problem is my mother and father were less than please when my brother join this church and if i left too i know they will not be happy, however the church i they go to now is just so hard to attend! every time we ge a new member my aunt are so hard on them, they run the out and my aunts are always putting me on "blast" in front of the whole church about things i did five, six years ago when i was having a little rough patch like all teenagers do and about wearing jeans and skirts above my ankles, cutting my hair and going to the movies etc. i want to join my brother new church it seems like a good fit for my life and the way i think about God and worship, but i don't do something my parents are against!! help!! (sorry this is so long but i had to vent)
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