Hey, I've been reading this board religiously for 5 days before signing up to be a member, and i must say Dang you sure know ur stuff. Only if i had actually cared about taking care of my hair from early i would have had past shoulder length hair by now.
Ok here goes:
So when i was about 15 - 16 i decided to go back natural, by that time i had 1 inch longer than shoulder length without tugging on it, and about 3 inches new growth. When I cut my hair, i would wet it every day and leave Always conditioner in it and walk out of the house. But that wasn't enough, i looked too plain. I told my stylist to put a wild colour in it. It came out two tints darker than white blonde. I became addicted to the color. I got alot of compliments, no breakage and my hair was healthy. Within a hair it was shoulder length once more ... but as my hair grew the front and back got straighter and straighter and the rest of my hair was curly. So i relaxed once more . big mistake
. Relaxer and Bleach . Then bleach again. =/. Never had that much of breakage problems, shedding alot because i am on BC pills , so i understand that.. but the problem came here
( my hair is in the halle berry, or was lol it started growing again)
Last month i got my hair done by my not-regular stylist, i explained to her before put relaxer in that i had touched up my hairline and middle and she said she knew. So i was liek ok once she knows. Today the middle of my hair is seems like a crinkly straight, at first i thought it was breaking but i realised it was breaking and underprocessed ... it looks blah ( or im just being paranoid). Up to the time i started reading this board i used to use a curling iron EVERYDAY (cuz my hair is in a short style and i cant put it in a pony tail). So i guess my hair is very damaged, even though it doesn't look so. Last week i cut off about an half of an inch by myself, except the back. It's pretty even, i hate to know i have split ends. My hair is still really blonde and i plan on keeping it and maintaining it to the best ability with help from You Smarties. On request i will say my regimen because i dont want to make the post too long
Thanks for reading !! Any ideas an tips would be greatly appreciated

Ok here goes:
So when i was about 15 - 16 i decided to go back natural, by that time i had 1 inch longer than shoulder length without tugging on it, and about 3 inches new growth. When I cut my hair, i would wet it every day and leave Always conditioner in it and walk out of the house. But that wasn't enough, i looked too plain. I told my stylist to put a wild colour in it. It came out two tints darker than white blonde. I became addicted to the color. I got alot of compliments, no breakage and my hair was healthy. Within a hair it was shoulder length once more ... but as my hair grew the front and back got straighter and straighter and the rest of my hair was curly. So i relaxed once more . big mistake

( my hair is in the halle berry, or was lol it started growing again)
Last month i got my hair done by my not-regular stylist, i explained to her before put relaxer in that i had touched up my hairline and middle and she said she knew. So i was liek ok once she knows. Today the middle of my hair is seems like a crinkly straight, at first i thought it was breaking but i realised it was breaking and underprocessed ... it looks blah ( or im just being paranoid). Up to the time i started reading this board i used to use a curling iron EVERYDAY (cuz my hair is in a short style and i cant put it in a pony tail). So i guess my hair is very damaged, even though it doesn't look so. Last week i cut off about an half of an inch by myself, except the back. It's pretty even, i hate to know i have split ends. My hair is still really blonde and i plan on keeping it and maintaining it to the best ability with help from You Smarties. On request i will say my regimen because i dont want to make the post too long
Thanks for reading !! Any ideas an tips would be greatly appreciated