You ever been in a relationship with a guy whose coloring drive was low?

We would be equally yoked (I wish I had that problem). I have a low libido which has always been a problem for my SO's.

If he truly has a low libido and he does not have any health problems he needs to at least make some effort to meet his partner half way. That is what I try to do. If I had this problem and he was not willing to try and meet my needs as much as is possible then I don't think it would work. I guess both would have to make compromises for it to work.
 
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chile puleez. Have I!! i been wif a man whose penis was broken. damn da low libido. and da relationship did not last long. it lasted just as long as his penis lasted. :ohwell:

*lights up a newport one hunnit*

See, i'm olda than most on this board so lemme elaborate a little. I wouldn't exactly say low libido, but his thang was broke chile... it wouldn't work. it was just layin there. dead. it would not move. he told me that he took some blood presha medicine cuz he wasn't feelin good da day before, so dats why it wasn't workin. and i was like well if u took some blook presha medicine yesterday, you shouldn't be tryna phuck t'day. you know yo stuff is gonna malfunction when u take dem pills, so you shouldn't even be outside tryna play. dat right der pissed me off.

if u know yo paper work ain't in order and yo thang is broke, den STAY HOME, getcha stuff in order, then come out n play.

i think they should have a spray for men. just like women have hair spray, they should have a penile spray for me. for example, they should have a spray for "lengthening and volume", added "thickness", hi octane for those low libido men, all of dat....just spray it on and watch it work, cuz see, dem viagras and all those other pills, u gotta WAIT for those to wait....

ok rant ova.

*puts out newport one hunnit*
 
ThatJerseyGirl said:
chile puleez. Have I!! i been wif a man whose penis was broken. damn da low libido. and da relationship did not last long. it lasted just as long as his penis lasted. :ohwell:

*lights up a newport one hunnit*

See, i'm olda than most on this board so lemme elaborate a little. I wouldn't exactly say low libido, but his thang was broke chile... it wouldn't work. it was just layin there. dead. it would not move. he told me that he took some blood presha medicine cuz he wasn't feelin good da day before, so dats why it wasn't workin. and i was like well if u took some blook presha medicine yesterday, you shouldn't be tryna phuck t'day. you know yo stuff is gonna malfunction when u take dem pills, so you shouldn't even be outside tryna play. dat right der pissed me off.

if u know yo paper work ain't in order and yo thang is broke, den STAY HOME, getcha stuff in order, then come out n play.

i think they should have a spray for men. just like women have hair spray, they should have a penile spray for me. for example, they should have a spray for "lengthening and volume", added "thickness", hi octane for those low libido men, all of dat....just spray it on and watch it work, cuz see, dem viagras and all those other pills, u gotta WAIT for those to wait....

ok rant ova.

*puts out newport one hunnit*
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ThatJerseyGirl said:
chile puleez. Have I!! i been wif a man whose penis was broken. damn da low libido. and da relationship did not last long. it lasted just as long as his penis lasted. :ohwell:

*lights up a newport one hunnit*

See, i'm olda than most on this board so lemme elaborate a little. I wouldn't exactly say low libido, but his thang was broke chile... it wouldn't work. it was just layin there. dead. it would not move. he told me that he took some blood presha medicine cuz he wasn't feelin good da day before, so dats why it wasn't workin. and i was like well if u took some blook presha medicine yesterday, you shouldn't be tryna phuck t'day. you know yo stuff is gonna malfunction when u take dem pills, so you shouldn't even be outside tryna play. dat right der pissed me off.

if u know yo paper work ain't in order and yo thang is broke, den STAY HOME, getcha stuff in order, then come out n play.

i think they should have a spray for men. just like women have hair spray, they should have a penile spray for me. for example, they should have a spray for "lengthening and volume", added "thickness", hi octane for those low libido men, all of dat....just spray it on and watch it work, cuz see, dem viagras and all those other pills, u gotta WAIT for those to wait....

ok rant ova.

*puts out newport one hunnit*
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Mad gal :lachen:
 
My ex had a low libido that was caused by depression. We were together for 7 yrs and there was a lot of times during that period where there was no penetration. I'm talking about doing 2 yr stints w/o penetration(on more than 1 occasion). He would try and it would be up, then down at the blink of an eye. Thank God he was good in other areas, but even that we didn't do too often.

He knew he had ths issue, felt bad about it, but never spoke to any doctors,or psychologists about it.

How did I cope? Thank God for B.O.B (battery operated boyfriend).
 
My husband is this way. He needs to work out to increase his libido and he's good. In particular, lifting weights, push-ups really help. Luckily he works out every day. So it's normally not a problem.

Also, if he's hungry he can't get it up. Make sure he's fed.
 
Brighteyes35 said:
Did you think anything was wrong with him? How did you make it work? Just curious.
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of course something is wrong because its bothering you but hes the only 1 who knows whats the reason.

ive been there. being real with u, it could be a few things:
*medical: low testosterone
*mental: depression, anxiety
*porn/master....addiction or overuse
*someone on the side
*lack of attraction
*relationship issue

you have to figure out what the cause is & decide if you can deal with it.
 
I used to have a higher libido then all my partners but I slowed down massively and dh and I are equal for the most time, lately he wants it alot more.
 
My exH was like this from the first time 22 years ago. His was mental related. He was just always too anxious or depressed. He was also an avid stoner, and smokin weed all day everyday will make a man impotent. Maybe we'd go 2 minutes and then it was a broke noodle again. Very frustrating. He's 40 and still with this issue...even with other women. For years I thought it was me. But no...

Hundreds of times, I'd just roll my eyes and then just roll the hell over. I mean after 3, 5, 10, 16 years of that it gets old. REALLY old. You lose patience esp if he's not really doing anything to fix it.

The man has got to be open to talking about it, see a doc, and figure out his options. And hopefully he's practicing other skills.
 
Yes. He would go limp the sec his penis came in contact with the vagina vagina I say its because he was too sexually frustrated. Selfish if you ask me.
 
ThatJerseyGirl said:
chile puleez. Have I!! i been wif a man whose penis was broken. damn da low libido. and da relationship did not last long. it lasted just as long as his penis lasted. :ohwell:

*lights up a newport one hunnit*

See, i'm olda than most on this board so lemme elaborate a little. I wouldn't exactly say low libido, but his thang was broke chile... it wouldn't work. it was just layin there. dead. it would not move. he told me that he took some blood presha medicine cuz he wasn't feelin good da day before, so dats why it wasn't workin. and i was like well if u took some blook presha medicine yesterday, you shouldn't be tryna phuck t'day. you know yo stuff is gonna malfunction when u take dem pills, so you shouldn't even be outside tryna play. dat right der pissed me off.

if u know yo paper work ain't in order and yo thang is broke, den STAY HOME, getcha stuff in order, then come out n play.

i think they should have a spray for men. just like women have hair spray, they should have a penile spray for me. for example, they should have a spray for "lengthening and volume", added "thickness", hi octane for those low libido men, all of dat....just spray it on and watch it work, cuz see, dem viagras and all those other pills, u gotta WAIT for those to wait....

ok rant ova.

*puts out newport one hunnit*
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Layluh said:
My husband is this way. He needs to work out to increase his libido and he's good. In particular, lifting weights, push-ups really help. Luckily he works out every day. So it's normally not a problem.

Also, if he's hungry he can't get it up. Make sure he's fed.
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This is DH. Saturday mornings when we actually get the chance to sleep in, he just HAS to have breakfast first and by then, I'm over it. :lol:
 
Yep it really drew a wedge into the relationship. He would have to take supplements to avoid PE. I never delt with anything like that before, it was really frustrating.

I wish for a low libido. :nono:
 
Yah I would lay in the bed naked...he'd claim to be too tired. I told him I don't know one man who'd claim to be too tired when a chick is layin in the bed every night naked. I let q him go, quickly.

Now he claims to have changed and want this old thang back....NOT!!!
 
Nope, I didn't know it was a such thing unless you was a senior. If I ever had one one we would never do it because I majority of the time don't initiate it unless I NEED it not WANT it
 
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