hzlcreativity
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I have the "unique" opportunity in front of me... my church is visiting the church of a guy I used to date. Ok no big deal right? Well...
1. Both of the churches are small.
2. Said break up was one of those nasty silent ones
3. The one time that we've seen each other, it was awkward and definitely hostile air
4. I don't want to seem like I'm avoiding him, but I don't want to have to be the bigger person (i.e. he says/does something which puts me in a situation)...
What would you do?
Under the given circumstances (I'm a choir member, he's the pastor of the church my choir is visiting), mild interaction could foreseeably happen. He's a total jerk and this being "his turf" could probably do something to potentially make the situation weird.
He's one of those people, I learned, who uses situations for his benefit. So, I could see this going a certain way, where he would try various things to flaunt.
Or the opposite could happen, nothing. (1% likely )
What would YOU do?
Avoid the situation all together?
1. Both of the churches are small.
2. Said break up was one of those nasty silent ones
3. The one time that we've seen each other, it was awkward and definitely hostile air
4. I don't want to seem like I'm avoiding him, but I don't want to have to be the bigger person (i.e. he says/does something which puts me in a situation)...
What would you do?
Under the given circumstances (I'm a choir member, he's the pastor of the church my choir is visiting), mild interaction could foreseeably happen. He's a total jerk and this being "his turf" could probably do something to potentially make the situation weird.
He's one of those people, I learned, who uses situations for his benefit. So, I could see this going a certain way, where he would try various things to flaunt.
Or the opposite could happen, nothing. (1% likely )
What would YOU do?
Avoid the situation all together?