yokoyokogirl
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My gf here, mentioned in some other posts, is a single half japanese/black mom dating a White Puerto rican guy in the navy.
I had lunch with her today. She was crying saying that she found out her bf (who she's living with) is doing pornographic photos for pay in Tokyo.
First of all, I thought that's crazy cause he can get in big trouble if caught and in the navy, but she said it's not head shots. Then she adds, he was offered $5000 to jack off on video...and he considered it. Now he's working part-time at an underwear cafe. NO JOKE. Of course its illegal and she told him "how would you feel if I stripped or worked at kabakura (hostess bar)" and he said "What's wrong with it. It's not cheating"--furthermore, he's doing it not for money for their kid, but for his dream car.
I personally know a lot of those video shoots and such are for gay men, which I highly doubt her bf is--but it's just seedy and dirty all together.
I think she's a good person, just makes bad choices. And they do have a kid together, although he's leaving the navy and basically doesn't care what happens to her as long as she sends "photos of their baby and keeps him in touch with the kid"--and he has said repeatedly he doesn't believe in marriage...
I wanted to tell her so bad, HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOU!!!!!!
But I dunno...in the past when I have gotten involved it has turned sour on me b/c no woman wants to hear the truth about her man.
What do you ladies think?
I had lunch with her today. She was crying saying that she found out her bf (who she's living with) is doing pornographic photos for pay in Tokyo.
First of all, I thought that's crazy cause he can get in big trouble if caught and in the navy, but she said it's not head shots. Then she adds, he was offered $5000 to jack off on video...and he considered it. Now he's working part-time at an underwear cafe. NO JOKE. Of course its illegal and she told him "how would you feel if I stripped or worked at kabakura (hostess bar)" and he said "What's wrong with it. It's not cheating"--furthermore, he's doing it not for money for their kid, but for his dream car.
I personally know a lot of those video shoots and such are for gay men, which I highly doubt her bf is--but it's just seedy and dirty all together.
I think she's a good person, just makes bad choices. And they do have a kid together, although he's leaving the navy and basically doesn't care what happens to her as long as she sends "photos of their baby and keeps him in touch with the kid"--and he has said repeatedly he doesn't believe in marriage...
I wanted to tell her so bad, HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOU!!!!!!
But I dunno...in the past when I have gotten involved it has turned sour on me b/c no woman wants to hear the truth about her man.
What do you ladies think?