Would you go to the funeral?

I would send a card and be done with it.

Why do you want to go to the BBQ? If you haven't received your invite then I doubt you will be invited unless he get's through list A and B.

I think you still have strong feelings for him because you are putting a lot of thought into all of this.
 
Personally I don't think I would have attended the funeral but I think you did a great job getting in there quickly and leaving before he arrived. As far as the BBQ birthday party, are you saying you just hope to be invited or are you actually wanting to go? Also, to be honest, I think maintaining this friendship may be unhealthy for you. I think you may need to break all contact with him for awhile. You sound like you are still hurting over the relationship ending--but maybe I'm reading too much into this.
 
I know it sounds harsh but it seems like you aren't really moving on and that you kind of romanticize him and the friendship, but in the meantime he is moving on. Maybe talk monthly instead of weekly? He seems to have a hold on you that may not be very healthy or good for you.
 
Fine 4s said:
ThickHair - There's no way I'm showing up at a BBQ uninvited but hmmm...it would bother me though, I ain't gonna lie. Especially since we talked about it while we were dating. Heck we all (his friends and I) talked about what we would bring. And now BAM, BOOM, NOTHING! LOL
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Quick and to the point, you weren't invited, now schedule something else to do during that time. Have your own BBQ.
 
Nope, wouldn't go. Not unless I was personally invited & even then I'd have to think about it because he and I aren't together anymore and I wouldn't owe him my time - it's not even a close relative, it sounds like a friend of a friend. Being that I'm not partial to funerals anyway, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't go.
 
Fine 4s said:
Although the action passed, I wonder, what would you do? Would you have gone? Yes, I consulted with good friends and they saw nothing wrong with it but hey...I got nothing better to do so let the torture begin!!!!
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No, I would not have gone to the funeral.
 
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