Hello Beautiful Ladies:
Loving His Body, Part I - There are several parts I've written to this.
This post is dedicated to the men we love and their precious, wonderful bodies that we 'love to love.' This post is about getting to know your husband's body. Exploring areas where you haven't been before (inside and out); areas about him you briefly visited and never returned.
Before we start, this is your time to relax. Get a cup of your favorite tea, coffee, spring water. If you can, have some low, soft music, for it's your time to rest from the stress of this day.
Ladies this is 'your' husband! This is no one else's man. And for your husband, there are so many ways of making love to his body; ways that out number his fantascies. I will share as much as I know.
But the number one way of loving him is making love to his health. We have to take care of our men...health-wise. Don't think we know it all. We don't. There's too much out there in sickness, disease, and stress, that are killing our men. Men who were never sick a day in their lives and sudddenly, they get sick and die or just drop dead.
The reason, is that we take too much for granted. Now it's time to make a change for life.
Know why men don't go for regular check-ups? As little boys it was Mommie who took them to the doctors. When she stopped, they stopped.
Now, it's up to us to make sure that they resume good health care. While I prefer holistic healing and natural remedies, we can't take chances. Until we have a qualified, certified specialist in this area, we have to depend on traditional medical doctors. And they are doing a good job; the good ones are.
Anyway...let's begin:
Now: Plan day for the two of you to visit his doctor for a complete physical. Full lab work and prostate screening. Also arrange for his colon to be tested.
You are not going as a nag or his mother. But as his friend and companion. Be there with him all the way. Sit with the doctor which your list of concerns and share the discussion together. Make notes. Follow the doctors advise. If unsure, always go for a 2nd, 3rd or even 4th opinion. Doctors are not God. So you may have to see more than one.
Angels, do what you have to do to keep him healthy. I'm sure that many of you are doing so. But life becomes two things, 'routine' and 'taken for granted.' As our bodies change, our health needs change. Our husbands have not been programed to take care of themselves. Mom always did it. Now it's up to us.
Oh, and before the thought even comes. Do not stress over finding out something bad. That's not the priority here, nor your focus.
Keep your heart here..."I'm making love to my husband's health' for he is my gift form God and he's worth it."
You will always have God on your side.
Love, Shimmie...
Loving his body part 2 coming next..more fun.
Loving His Body, Part I - There are several parts I've written to this.
This post is dedicated to the men we love and their precious, wonderful bodies that we 'love to love.' This post is about getting to know your husband's body. Exploring areas where you haven't been before (inside and out); areas about him you briefly visited and never returned.
Before we start, this is your time to relax. Get a cup of your favorite tea, coffee, spring water. If you can, have some low, soft music, for it's your time to rest from the stress of this day.
Ladies this is 'your' husband! This is no one else's man. And for your husband, there are so many ways of making love to his body; ways that out number his fantascies. I will share as much as I know.
But the number one way of loving him is making love to his health. We have to take care of our men...health-wise. Don't think we know it all. We don't. There's too much out there in sickness, disease, and stress, that are killing our men. Men who were never sick a day in their lives and sudddenly, they get sick and die or just drop dead.
The reason, is that we take too much for granted. Now it's time to make a change for life.
Know why men don't go for regular check-ups? As little boys it was Mommie who took them to the doctors. When she stopped, they stopped.
Now, it's up to us to make sure that they resume good health care. While I prefer holistic healing and natural remedies, we can't take chances. Until we have a qualified, certified specialist in this area, we have to depend on traditional medical doctors. And they are doing a good job; the good ones are.
Anyway...let's begin:
- Begin a Health Journal for your husband
- Begin noting your husband's habits and behavior patterns.
- If he sees this and wants to know what's up, kiss him and tell him, "I'm making love to your body..."
- In the journal, what are your concerns?
- Note what and how he eats
- Is he over or under weight?
- What are his medications, Does he take them as he should?
- What are his vitamins and herbs
- How much does he sleep
- What are his bowel and urine patterns
- His hygiene (body, dental and hair care)
- Who is his barber? Is the barber shop acceptable? (Clean, safe, etc.) This matters...
- What does your husband drink (both non- alcoholic and alcoholic)
- Does he smoke
- Any drug use (No condemnation here - this is for your personal check list for his health journal)
- Does he snore? And how strongly? Does he have sleep apneia (sp?)
- How is his temperment? Easily upset? Calm and easy going?
- Does he enjoy his job
- How is his social and extended family life
- How is his energy level
- How often does he want sex? Do you have any concerns?
Now: Plan day for the two of you to visit his doctor for a complete physical. Full lab work and prostate screening. Also arrange for his colon to be tested.
You are not going as a nag or his mother. But as his friend and companion. Be there with him all the way. Sit with the doctor which your list of concerns and share the discussion together. Make notes. Follow the doctors advise. If unsure, always go for a 2nd, 3rd or even 4th opinion. Doctors are not God. So you may have to see more than one.
Angels, do what you have to do to keep him healthy. I'm sure that many of you are doing so. But life becomes two things, 'routine' and 'taken for granted.' As our bodies change, our health needs change. Our husbands have not been programed to take care of themselves. Mom always did it. Now it's up to us.
Oh, and before the thought even comes. Do not stress over finding out something bad. That's not the priority here, nor your focus.
Keep your heart here..."I'm making love to my husband's health' for he is my gift form God and he's worth it."
You will always have God on your side.
Love, Shimmie...
Loving his body part 2 coming next..more fun.