I don't think you're being too sensitive. I know your frustration and it can be difficult to articulate. Like another poster said, not every word is from the Lord and not everyone has the gift of discernment. Keep believing God for your spouse regardless of what others may say. When I was waiting for my spouse everything imaginable was thrown my way. A friend told me that perhaps I wasn't hearing from God or maybe I misunderstood God. Another friend wanted me to think about if it was God's permissive will or perfect will for me to be married. You'll have to learn to drown out background noise and be confident in what God has for you.