Why is it . . .
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daydreem2876
carpe diem
If I had the answer to that one....
MissMeWithThatIsh
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You need a shirt that says life is too short for ugly men.
. . . that dudes you are interested in don't holla at all, but ugly dudes you have no interest in are steady checkin' for you!
Tis all!
I say give the ugly dude a chance
Glib Gurl
Well-Known Member
I say give the ugly dude a chance
I am actually not opposed to giving the ugly dude a chance....but don't also have another dealbreaker (like one dude practices some weird religion that doesn't vibe woth me and Jesus at all!
). . . that dudes you are interested in don't holla at all, but ugly dudes you have no interest in are steady checkin' for you!
Tis all!
Like DLewis said, give the ugly man a chance. He could be who God has for you. Try finding out.
blue_flower
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My hypothesis is that if you show interest in the ugly dude, then the good looking dude will come and holler. Anyone want to try it out?
crlsweetie912
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I had a lesson in this just this past week...Cause the dudes you are interested in ARE NOT THE ONES FOR YOU!!! If he isn't checkin for you, KIM!!!. . . that dudes you are interested in don't holla at all, but ugly dudes you have no interest in are steady checkin' for you!
Tis all!
God kept one out of my way and I found out some stuff that was like
I dodged a BULLET!!!
THANK YOU LORD!
MissMeWithThatIsh
New Member
On a serious note, I feel and believe that...
To be honest, a guy's looks aren't as appealing as his whole package.
It has to be an attractive package with an attractive product of good quality inside. Otherwise, I just like to objectify the packaging or wait until I get it for free...
But on the other hand, don't we have a right to discern who we are or aren't attracted to? Some things that are found attractive, are biologically justified...
heyfranz
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I agree with all of this, especially the bolded. Also, i am attracted to certain "qualities" moreso than looks, and honestly, if he's butt ugly, then i don't care to find out about his good qualities. I was mostly talking to myself about what God is trying to show us.
BKVincy
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I dunno
i find that men are not like women in the sense that
men always wants someone that they feel is better than them and can make them look good.
Im not saying that if that dude is not hollering at you that your not up to par but just off as first glance men will only approach what they feel is beyond their reach its a challenge for them
THIS OPINION IS JUST OFF OF FIRST GLANCE.. MEANING JUST SEEING YOU OFF THE STREET
I think the best way to meet a man that is as equally sexy as you ladies is through a causal meeting of friends and associates.. that way its a more laid back friendly atmosphere where they might not be just about "the chase" at that momment they'll catch you at a time where they might actually be intresting in more than your physical apperance
i find that men are not like women in the sense that
men always wants someone that they feel is better than them and can make them look good.
Im not saying that if that dude is not hollering at you that your not up to par but just off as first glance men will only approach what they feel is beyond their reach its a challenge for them
THIS OPINION IS JUST OFF OF FIRST GLANCE.. MEANING JUST SEEING YOU OFF THE STREET
I think the best way to meet a man that is as equally sexy as you ladies is through a causal meeting of friends and associates.. that way its a more laid back friendly atmosphere where they might not be just about "the chase" at that momment they'll catch you at a time where they might actually be intresting in more than your physical apperance
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This is the story of my life but not necessarily on the "ugly" side...just moreso men who have nothing going for them. The ones standing on the street corner. My mother will seriously say something to me like "well, you never know." I just leave the room. I would like to find someone but I not interested in the guy on the street corner with his pants hanging off and smoking a cigarette. There has to be SOME attraction when you see/meet someone. If he isn't immediately attractive to me - is he at least well-dressed and groomed? Those things can suddenly make someone attractive.
misskris816
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. . . that dudes you are interested in don't holla at all, but ugly dudes you have no interest in are steady checkin' for you!
Tis all!
1. We're probably sending more of a desparate vibe to the guys we really like.
2. The ugly ones have nothing to lose!
BroadstreetBully
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I'm sorry, but I have to be attracted to a man. I don't get too much into this..."looks aren't important" stuff. Granted sometimes a man's personality and character shines so much that he becomes more attractive to me. But it wouldn't be fair for him to get his "dream girl" and I have to be stuck with...
The right guy will come along. I know how you feel, if I like a guy...he isn't into me, but in the meanwhile I get stalked by crazy mofos. The crazy thing is that when you stop thinking about finding someone, he comes along.
The right guy will come along. I know how you feel, if I like a guy...he isn't into me, but in the meanwhile I get stalked by crazy mofos. The crazy thing is that when you stop thinking about finding someone, he comes along.
KEWLKAT103
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We are all attracted to different types of people, so what's attractive to you may not be for another woman. To someone, the "ugly dudes" may be just what they're looking for.
Also, I think some ladies are looking and asking for things that they are not. You should be at or better than looks or whatever it is you are seeking from men.
Also, I think some ladies are looking and asking for things that they are not. You should be at or better than looks or whatever it is you are seeking from men.
And on the back, "Life is too ugly for short men"
daydreem2876
carpe diem
Ugly dudes don't holler at me!
Just the ones with Jheri curls, gold teeth, and gators...
who have always lived with their mothers...
un/underemployed...
look at you like they want to eat you (like a bear looking at his prey) and are cockeyed...
can't fomulate complete sentences....
but nope not the ugly ones
Just the ones with Jheri curls, gold teeth, and gators...
who have always lived with their mothers...
un/underemployed...
look at you like they want to eat you (like a bear looking at his prey) and are cockeyed...
can't fomulate complete sentences....
but nope not the ugly ones
Latomian
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I'm sorry, but I have to be attracted to a man. I don't get too much into this..."looks aren't important" stuff. Granted sometimes a man's personality and character shines so much that he becomes more attractive to me. But it wouldn't be fair for him to get his "dream girl" and I have to be stuck with...
The right guy will come along. I know how you feel, if I like a guy...he isn't into me, but in the meanwhile I get stalked by crazy mofos. The crazy thing is that when you stop thinking about finding someone, he comes along.
I'm sorry, but I gotta agree with you. IMO, there are more beautiful women in this world than there are attractive men. I'm not saying that I have to go after the guy that's just GORGEOUS but I MUST be attracted to him. It may sound shallow but if he enjoys looking at me, I gotta enjoy looking at him. Especially intimately.
Glib Gurl
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Ugly dudes don't holler at me!
Just the ones with Jheri curls, gold teeth, and gators...
who have always lived with their mothers...
un/underemployed...
look at you like they want to eat you (like a bear looking at his prey) and are cockeyed...
can't fomulate complete sentences....
but nope not the ugly ones
Girl, this is me, too. I'm like, Nicca, I got a law degree . . . what do I want with someone who can't even speak proper English!
cicilypayne
Well-Known Member
Ugly dude is probably single or uncommitted and the ones who u like r being liked/loved by someone else.
Denise11
New Member
THANK YOU! I have to be physically attracted to the man I'm with or nothing will be going on sexually.
I'm so tired of hearing people say looks don't matter, because it does. If I'm possibly going to be with this man long term, I'm gonna have to look at him. I need to be able to do that without throwing up a little in my mouth.LOL
SparkleDoll
New Member
Or the ones that she like, just don't like her.
SimpleKomplexity
New Member
Yeah two dudes who looked homeless were tryna hit on me outside of Family Dollar. So you're sayin I should give them a chance? I think not....REJECT looool
