My case is a bit of the reverse I used to go to church and tried to drag my husband to the Church i was going to. My children have always attended a local sunday school on sunday afternoons. One sunday they invited all parents for a prize-giving ceremony my husband attended and was impressed with the way it was handled and how the focus was on nuturing the youngsters mind and spirits to the Lord. By the next Sunday week my husband said thats the church he wants us to attend as a family considering this was not my church. Well to cut a long story short I changed churches and I have been blessed with a husband who now goes to church regularly even though he's not yet born again, I know it will happen in Gods own time. What put my husband off church initially was the drama that can sometimes be present in predominantly black churches, the church we attend now is predominantly white.[/quote]
Right there... You said it... The crazy thing is i havent experience any problems at the church i attend now and its a mixed crowd.