mallysmommy
Well-Known Member
I've been thinking of past relationships, experiences etc and what I hope to receive in the new year as far as men and dating. I was scrolling through my Facebook news feed when one of my friends posted this status update
"Husband material?? none of that is out there. Jus wannabe playas!! Now a days men don’t appreciate a real chic! Oh well!!!"
i was going to "like" her status and give some encouraging words when i saw that someone else...a man posted this in response
"Sorry but I have to post this one. The joke opportunity is too easy:
Ladies, guys are sick of hearing you ask where all of the "nice guys" are. They’re in the friend zone, where you left them."
As simple as his statement was I couldn't help but smh and laugh. I thought about the men that I am usually attracted to and who I usually sought relationships with and the brothers who I’ve left by the wayside but ended up turning to when those relationships didn’t work out or turned sour.
There is one guy in my life who has been my friend for a while now. I've never considered anything with him because one, he lives too far away and two, I don't particularly like where he is in life right now. But with recent events in my life I’ve considered whether or not his situation was really that big of a deal.
For those of you who have men occupying that friend zone space, how did they get there and would they ever have a chance at getting out, and have you ever dated man that you have placed in the friend zone?
"Husband material?? none of that is out there. Jus wannabe playas!! Now a days men don’t appreciate a real chic! Oh well!!!"
i was going to "like" her status and give some encouraging words when i saw that someone else...a man posted this in response
"Sorry but I have to post this one. The joke opportunity is too easy:
Ladies, guys are sick of hearing you ask where all of the "nice guys" are. They’re in the friend zone, where you left them."
As simple as his statement was I couldn't help but smh and laugh. I thought about the men that I am usually attracted to and who I usually sought relationships with and the brothers who I’ve left by the wayside but ended up turning to when those relationships didn’t work out or turned sour.
There is one guy in my life who has been my friend for a while now. I've never considered anything with him because one, he lives too far away and two, I don't particularly like where he is in life right now. But with recent events in my life I’ve considered whether or not his situation was really that big of a deal.
For those of you who have men occupying that friend zone space, how did they get there and would they ever have a chance at getting out, and have you ever dated man that you have placed in the friend zone?