StarScream35
Well-Known Member
Others spend their lives looking for their soulmates?
Others spend their lives looking for their soulmates?
I don't think most people marry their soul mates. But if you are fortunate enough to meet your soul mate early, it may make it easier for you to be in a long term loving relationship or marriage.
I've learned that your soul mate(s) aren't neccesarily meant for you marry. I believe G-d bring people in your life for various purposes and life lessons that you wouldn't learn otherwise. Anybody read that book Between Lovers? Nick and Nicole were soul mates but they both ended up marrying other people. Seems as though G-d brought them together to teach them how love unconditionally thus preparing them to better mates for the people they did end up marrying. I've found my soul mate but unfortunately he's not the man G-d's picked out for me to marry. Sucks but those are the breaks.
The soulmate theory is confusing to me and that's why I don't believe in it for the most part. Or maybe I don't understand what a soulmate really is. I mean, if only one person is supposed to be a soulmate, shouldn't you end up with them no matter what?
I think several people can be a soulmate to any one person. As long as you love each other, they treat you well, make you happy and have the same principles, values and goals.