FineChyna
Member
in wishin4bls's thread called "my friends think i am crazy" blueabyss said that her man always complains her hair isn't "done".
why is it wearing your hair in buns or nicely styled ponytails is considered as not "having your hair done"? to me not having your hair dones means it looks unkempt or you are walking outside with your hair wrapped up in scarves because it is really not done in any type way.
i also remember awhile back on another board someone said that women should never ever wear there hair pulled in a ponytail or bun because it looks immature and juvenile. this person works HR for their comp and said that she found it absurd when women (especially black women )would come in with their hair pulled back in ponytails or buns because the other women(white, asian or latino), according to her, never wore their hair like that. to me wearing your hair pulled back is a conservative look and the smart thing to do depending where you are applying for a job
i've have heard this statment alot even though ponytails and buns can be dressed up or down to look different so why is it not considered a "hairstyle". furthermore why do we get more slack over that hair style but none if we came out with some rainbow brite style weaves? to me a ponytail/bun would look way better than having jesse jackson's rainbow coalition perched in my head :-/
any thoughts on why people are so anti pony?
why is it wearing your hair in buns or nicely styled ponytails is considered as not "having your hair done"? to me not having your hair dones means it looks unkempt or you are walking outside with your hair wrapped up in scarves because it is really not done in any type way.
i also remember awhile back on another board someone said that women should never ever wear there hair pulled in a ponytail or bun because it looks immature and juvenile. this person works HR for their comp and said that she found it absurd when women (especially black women )would come in with their hair pulled back in ponytails or buns because the other women(white, asian or latino), according to her, never wore their hair like that. to me wearing your hair pulled back is a conservative look and the smart thing to do depending where you are applying for a job
i've have heard this statment alot even though ponytails and buns can be dressed up or down to look different so why is it not considered a "hairstyle". furthermore why do we get more slack over that hair style but none if we came out with some rainbow brite style weaves? to me a ponytail/bun would look way better than having jesse jackson's rainbow coalition perched in my head :-/
any thoughts on why people are so anti pony?
Last edited: