I know we have had many threads about people with bad hair who love to give advice. Now ya'll know when I say bad hair I mean jacked up hair....snap short...breaking...thin...greasy...dirty..Jheri-Curled etc.
Why is it that these people always start off by giving you a compliment and then interjecting their advice about how your hair could look better and grow faster by following thier techniques? When it should be obvious that whatever it is that they are doing DOES NOT WORK for them...cuz if it did their hair wouldn't be looking all tore up? Then when you say "Well, I use ______ they follow up by telling you that the product(s) are no good...too expensive etc.
For example: I'm wearing my hair down today...I got a nice compliment followed up by the usual: Why don't you wear your hair down everyday?
Now I'm beyond telling people all the reasons why I wear my hair up a lot...especially this woman...last time she lectured me about not "doing" my hair...which in her book consist of slapping tons of olive oil on it nightly and frying it with a curling iron every morning...I explained that I don't like to use too much heat and all that..but obviously this info has not stuck in her brain.
Anyway, I'm tired of explaining myself so I just say:Well I'm pressed for time and can't wash my hair more than once a week these days. Now this woman with the tore up do was like: Wash hair every week? No...no..no...you shouldn't be washing your hair more than every 2 weeks (Mind you her hair is FULL of nasty white flakes...so this obviously does not work for her) and you need to use the ORS Hair Mayonaisse for deep conditining.
Why? you have been using it and washing your hair 2wce a month forever and your hair is thin...full of dandruff and not even neck length...WHY WOULD I LISTEN TO YOU!
Sorry I had to vent...anyway...feel free to share your unsolicited hair advice stories...the worst part is that I don't ask for advice or give any out voluntarily...this woman tracks me down at my desk to lecture me on hair care! /images/graemlins/hammer.gif worse of all she is my mother's age so I feel like I can't diss her at all out of respect.
She actually brought in the ORS...In my head I'm like: Did I ask you for that! but I said: Uh..maybe I will try it..whatever...not to say that it isn't a good product but I won't take a product recommendations from anyone with bad hair. Why would I?
Why is it that these people always start off by giving you a compliment and then interjecting their advice about how your hair could look better and grow faster by following thier techniques? When it should be obvious that whatever it is that they are doing DOES NOT WORK for them...cuz if it did their hair wouldn't be looking all tore up? Then when you say "Well, I use ______ they follow up by telling you that the product(s) are no good...too expensive etc.
For example: I'm wearing my hair down today...I got a nice compliment followed up by the usual: Why don't you wear your hair down everyday?
Now I'm beyond telling people all the reasons why I wear my hair up a lot...especially this woman...last time she lectured me about not "doing" my hair...which in her book consist of slapping tons of olive oil on it nightly and frying it with a curling iron every morning...I explained that I don't like to use too much heat and all that..but obviously this info has not stuck in her brain.
Anyway, I'm tired of explaining myself so I just say:Well I'm pressed for time and can't wash my hair more than once a week these days. Now this woman with the tore up do was like: Wash hair every week? No...no..no...you shouldn't be washing your hair more than every 2 weeks (Mind you her hair is FULL of nasty white flakes...so this obviously does not work for her) and you need to use the ORS Hair Mayonaisse for deep conditining.
Why? you have been using it and washing your hair 2wce a month forever and your hair is thin...full of dandruff and not even neck length...WHY WOULD I LISTEN TO YOU!
Sorry I had to vent...anyway...feel free to share your unsolicited hair advice stories...the worst part is that I don't ask for advice or give any out voluntarily...this woman tracks me down at my desk to lecture me on hair care! /images/graemlins/hammer.gif worse of all she is my mother's age so I feel like I can't diss her at all out of respect.
She actually brought in the ORS...In my head I'm like: Did I ask you for that! but I said: Uh..maybe I will try it..whatever...not to say that it isn't a good product but I won't take a product recommendations from anyone with bad hair. Why would I?
