Which "Fruit" are you going to plant & commit to watering over the next 365 days?

Which Fruit are you to plant and water?

  • Fruit of Love

    Votes: 7 22.6%
  • Fruit of Joy

    Votes: 3 9.7%
  • Fruit of Peace

    Votes: 4 12.9%
  • Fruit of Long-Suffering

    Votes: 1 3.2%
  • Fruit of Kindness

    Votes: 1 3.2%
  • Fruit of Goodness

    Votes: 2 6.5%
  • Fruit of Faithfulness

    Votes: 5 16.1%
  • Fruit of Gentleness

    Votes: 2 6.5%
  • Fruit of Self-Control

    Votes: 6 19.4%

  • Total voters
    31
  • Poll closed .

PinkPebbles

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Ladies – this is a light-hearted thread…so let’s have some fun!!!

None of us are perfect and we all are a work-in-progress. The beauty of seed time is that there will be a harvest. So which “Fruit” are you going to plant and commit to watering over the next 365 days?

Fruit of the Spirit Breakdown by Jarrod Clark

Love- There are 3 types of love. There is Eros love, which is known as “erotic love”. There is Philos love, which is a brotherly love or a love known between two friends. And lastly, there is the ultimate love, Agape love, which means unconditional love.
Agape love is the love that, Jesus, displayed and therefore is the love referred to in Galatians 5:22 when defining the fruit of the spirit. Love is a powerful thing because it covers a multitude of sins as 1 Peter 4:8 tells us. 1 Corinthians 13:13 says: “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.”
When you love unconditionally, it doesn’t mean you won’t be hurt, it doesn’t mean that you won’t be talked about but it does mean that you are displaying the fruit that, Jesus, displayed. Agape love will take you a long way in life. Make a decision to love unconditionally regardless of how people have hurt you.

Joy - There is a difference between joy and happiness.Happiness is an emotion. It’s something that you feel one minute and could be gone the next, based on what’s going on around you.
Joy, however is a gift from God. People who are joyful may not always be happy but they choose to display the Joy that God has given them and shine their light so that the world may see.
You may be going through the worst trial known to man but if you choose to be joyful regardless of your situation, regardless of your past, then God sees that and He honors that.

PeacePeace is another fruit that is based on a choice. When you have a bad day, you can either choose to wallow in despair, hang your head down and complain, or you can choose peace. You can make the choice when you walk out the door in the morning that no matter what happens to you today, you’re going to smile and not get hot and bothered. Make no mistake, it won’t be easy but it’s worth it!

Longsuffering - Many times God doesn’t move when we want Him to move. It can be tough exercising patience while in adversity. I encourage you, my friend, to operate in patience regardless, don’t get uptight. Psalm 27:14 encourages us in times of distress because it tells us: “Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD.” Remember, every trial you face is just a test. God looks at how you handle the adversity while you wait and He rewards you for enduring it with patience.

Kindness - Kindness is very much like love in the sense that it’s an unselfish act. When you’re walking through a door, just because the person in front of you doesn’t hold the door open for you, doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t hold the door open for the next person.
 
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A wise man once said, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” In other words, instead of judging someone when you don’t agree with their actions, set an example. Kindness is an example that we need to see more of, especially in the world today.

Goodness- Goodness and kindness also go hand in hand. I encourage you to always do what you know is right. About a year ago, in 2008, ABC had a reality show entitled, True Beauty. As I watched this show, I noticed that they would put the contestants in situations where there were hidden cameras and they had the opportunity to do what was right or wrong.

There was an episode where a decoy was riding a bike on the street and he would fake a fall right in front of these candidates. The question was, would these contestants just walk away and not help the decoy or offer a helping hand?

What would you do in a situation like this?

The right thing to do would be to help this person indeed. Do what you know is right in every situation whether or not someone is watching.

Faithfulness - You may not be able to see the outcome of what God is doing in your life or where He’s taking you but always know that God will never lead you astray. He’s got your best interest at heart. God is the captain of our ship and we have to trust Him for He’s got the course plotted. He’s knows the end.

Gentleness - Have you ever been out and you got a feeling that you shouldn’t have been where you were? Many people call it intuition.

When God speaks to us, He doesn’t ring out loud in a thunderous voice from the Heavens, like many of the movies portray Him. You will know when God is speaking to you because you will feel a gentle nudging in your spirit to do right when your flesh wants to do wrong.

It’s not our place to judge others. When someone is going down the wrong path, instead of belittling and talking down to them, encourage them to do what is right with a spirit of meekness.

Self-ControlAnger is another emotion such as happiness. There are going to be times when people or situations make you feel angry but I encourage you to make the choice to exercise self-control. Wrath is one of the works of the flesh, (as outlined in Galatians 5:19-22) which is very much the opposite of the fruit of the spirit.

Temperance is the spirit that, Jesus, carried to the grave. He was called out of His name, He was betrayed by Judas and He was spat on, bruised and chastised.

In the world today, if someone is called out of their name, that would be a fight waiting to happen but Jesus didn’t operate that way. He chose to exercise Self-Control.

Make the choice today, to exercise love, joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control, as you charge forward in your life journey.
 
I fall into the category "all of the above" too!!!

I will be investing more in the "fruit of faithfulness." Standing on the word of God during the good and bad. I will be going to bible study more consistently b/c faith comes by hearing, and hearing, and hearing the word of God!

Also, I will be planting the "fruit of love." Lord knows I have to pray for my enemies and know that we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities.

Ladies - 2013 is going to be filled with Beautiful Gardens :dance7:
 
All of them!

But I chose Love, because I believe it is the foundation for all the others. There is a reason why it is listed first. First love, and the rest of the fruits will follow.
 
I want to work on all of these, but I voted for self control. My main goal is to get closer and closer to Christ by allowing Him to crucify my flesh.
 
You know the Lord always picks one for me. Last year it was longsuffering this year it was love. I would love to work on Joy, Gentleness and Kindess though.
 
I chose gentleness. I know that I tend to have a very strong personality and my sister is always teasing me for it. My future husband even told me I can be quite forceful and that I think everyone should see things the way I see them... I really wanted to be mad at him telling me that but I couldn't because I have heard it from too many other people..

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All of them!

But I chose Love, because I believe it is the foundation for all the others. There is a reason why it is listed first. First love, and the rest of the fruits will follow.

Beautiful and so true.

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I'd say all of the above, but I will concentrate on self-control and love. As I prepare myself to marry FH, I realize that I've put the man through so much with my temper tantrums but still received unconditional love from him. :yep: :lol:
 
Ladies - I'd like to share what God revealed to me.

It's easy to be a Christian when we cut everyone off that we've had a disagreement, miscommunication, or misunderstanding with because we no longer have to push ourselves to operate in the fruit of the spirit.

When we are faced with such challenges we shouldn't run, hide, or isolate ourselves but rather face our weaknesses and allow God to prune and mold us into His very image.

'He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world' 1 John 4:4

Let us continue to plant and water our fruit daily :woot:!!!!

So many believers think of the fruit of the spirit as little more than a passive list of pleasant qualities that can help improve their personalities. But they're far greater than that! They're pure spiritual power. Kenneth Copeland
 
I will be doing a study on this today. Gifts and Fruit of the Holy Spirit are mentioned in several places in the Word:

Isaiah 11:2-3
Acts 8
I Cor 12-14
Gal 5:22-25

My goal is to cultivate all of these. If I had to pick one, I'd want wisdom like King Solomon because wisdom is the gateway to many other things. :yep:
 
Ladies - I'd like to share what God revealed to me.

It's easy to be a Christian when we cut everyone off that we've had a disagreement, miscommunication, or misunderstanding with because we no longer have to push ourselves to operate in the fruit of the spirit.

When we are faced with such challenges we shouldn't run, hide, or isolate ourselves but rather face our weaknesses and allow God to prune and mold us into His very image.

'He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world' 1 John 4:4

Let us continue to plant and water our fruit daily :woot:!!!!

So many believers think of the fruit of the spirit as little more than a passive list of pleasant qualities that can help improve their personalities. But they're far greater than that! They're pure spiritual power. Kenneth Copeland

You are so right! It is too easy to just cut folks off, and it doesn't allow us to grow. It also makes us focus on how we were "right" rather than focus on how we need to stretch and grow to be more like Christ.
 
I will be doing a study on this today. Gifts and Fruit of the Holy Spirit are mentioned in several places in the Word:

Isaiah 11:2-3
Acts 8
I Cor 12-14
Gal 5:22-25

My goal is to cultivate all of these. If I had to pick one, I'd want wisdom like King Solomon because wisdom is the gateway to many other things. :yep:

Belle Du Jour thank you for sharing!

I'm currently studying the fruit of the spirit and will continue throughout 2013. Please share your study notes, knowledge, and revelation with us :grin:.
 
You are so right! It is too easy to just cut folks off, and it doesn't allow us to grow. It also makes us focus on how we were "right" rather than focus on how we need to stretch and grow to be more like Christ.

Blackpearl1993 :amen: Preach!!!
Last week God convicted me on how I’ve been treating my coworker. I felt my coworker was too negative. I made up my mind to distance myself and thought I had done the right thing. Well, in my attempt to distance myself I stopped speaking to my coworker. When she had a question I was real short with her. She noticed a changed in my behavior and then the tension started.

God ministered to my spirit to let me know I should have handled the situation differently. There will always be some type of negativity whether you are in corporate, church, school, event, etc. that will have to be dealt with. The Lord let me know the very first time she started speaking negatively about others I should have said “nobody is perfect and we all need to learn how to work together.” There was no need for me to distance myself and be unkind. My actions were no better than her negativity. However, this experience has taught me a valuable lesson :yep:.
 
I really need a big dose of courage going into 2013, like the Popeye eats his spinach type of courage. Except I need my courage to be permanent rather than temporary. Lol!. But seriously, I need courage to move forward and act on some of the plans and ideas God has given me. So I know that courage isn't a fruit of the spirit but I feel it's synonymous with faithfulness. The boldness and courage I need will come from complete faith in God and knowing that He will never ever let me down.
 
Self control. My flesh just shriveled as I voted:blush:. I'll take more of this in all areas but especially with dees here co-workers of mine:look:. I'm praying not to reach out and touch a few of them almost daily:hardslap:.
 
I normally don't come into this section but I will say love.

I need to find my love for people. I find that I could care less about anyone outside of my circle. I don't want to be like that.

eTA: maybe not care less but I find that I had been content to just have superficial relationships with people outside of my inner circle and never invested so to speak... I can see where I can plant the seed of love in certain areas of my life. :yep:
 
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Ladies - I'd like to share what God revealed to me.

It's easy to be a Christian when we cut everyone off that we've had a disagreement, miscommunication, or misunderstanding with because we no longer have to push ourselves to operate in the fruit of the spirit.

When we are faced with such challenges we shouldn't run, hide, or isolate ourselves but rather face our weaknesses and allow God to prune and mold us into His very image.

'He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world' 1 John 4:4

Let us continue to plant and water our fruit daily :woot:!!!!

So many believers think of the fruit of the spirit as little more than a passive list of pleasant qualities that can help improve their personalities. But they're far greater than that! They're pure spiritual power. Kenneth Copeland

This really spoke directly to me. This is exactly what I'm dealing with. I am the queen of cutting people off. But, I'm in a place in life where I am forced to not only be around people I'd rather not be but I'm also learning to move in 'love' in the midst of confusion. I've asked God why? why? In previous times in my life removing myself was enough but that is not possible now.


I am growing....
 
This really spoke directly to me. This is exactly what I'm dealing with. I am the queen of cutting people off. But, I'm in a place in life where I am forced to not only be around people I'd rather not be but I'm also learning to move in 'love' in the midst of confusion. I've asked God why? why? In previous times in my life removing myself was enough but that is not possible now.


I am growing....

Lymegreen thanks for sharing :)

I'd like to share a quote that has encouraged me to continue to plant and water daily.

"When we position ourselves under the headship of Christ and learn to do what He requires of us, there is a flow of the Holy Spirit that will carry us through....with each new step of obedience we take, we experience new blessings and new freedoms we have not known before and never thought possible." Stormie Omartian
 
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Joy: A Very Real Force

Joy. It's not a warm, happy feeling you're supposed to have now and then when things are going well. It's much more than that. Joy is one of the most powerful spiritual forces in the world.

Look again at Nehemiah 8:10 and I'll show you why. If you were to diagram that scripture and remove the phrase "of the Lord," you would find what it's truly saying is this: Joy is strength. The two are interchangeable.

That's what makes joy so crucial. You can't live a life of faith without being strong in the Lord - and when God wants to make you strong, joy is what He uses to do the job!

Joy is not just a state of mind. It is not a fleeing emotion. Joy is a very real force, and the devil doesn't have anything that can stand up against it. Just as fear has to yield to faith, discouragement has to yield to joy.

Since joy is one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit, you already have it residing within you. But you must develop it, confess it, and live by it if you want to enjoy its power.

Whatever circumstances you are facing today, you can be full of joy. You can be strong in the Lord. You can draw on the supply of the Holy Spirit within you and come out on top.

Rejoice!

"The joy of the Lord is your strength." (Nehemiah 8:10)

Scripture reading: Psalm 18:28-50

Kenneth Copeland​
 
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