I haven't given up on men but I've learn to let go of expectations of men and people in general. Doesn't mean that you shouldn't have standards and let people treat you poorly, but trying to control or even simply analyze why another human being (with free will) is acting a certain way will only drive you crazy. It's a waste of time and energy.
I'm kind of on this "no resistance" and no worrying path when it comes to men and it seems to be working. Where I do put my "boy" (doing) energy and focus is back onto myself. I plan ways to make myself happy. The only time things seems to go awry with guys is when I try to manipulate a certain outcome...
Men are great. They are different from us which is ok.
I keep my life open to all possibilities, so I'd never give up on men or anything else for that matter. But as the year closes I find myself not as concerned with it, and for the first time in a long while, I'm okay with that. I do wonder sometimes if I'll meet the one, but I stress about it less as I get older. For the past few years I've had the desire to relocate to a region that would pretty much mean the end of a thriving dating life but would bring so much personal fulfillment. I've felt pressured to stay in larger metros because dating prospects are better, but I'm unhappy in the city. It might be time for me to just let go and take the leap.
This was my plan. Focus on me and raising my son. Seems like my life always runs so much smoother when I’m alone.Maybe this is more age related. I see older women sometimes 40 and up who make have kids just give up on men due to bad experiences and just focus on their kids or themselves. Sometimes they seem happier