At what point during the washing process do you detangle? I'm starting to think I should detangle right after I wash and before I condition. For some reason I have been conditioning then detangle before I style. But I realize that I need to use my detangling spray prior to applying conditioner because I can't comb the conditioner through????This doesn't happen all the time. The last time I washed I washed then conditioned then applied detangler and had no problems. What does this mean? Do I need to use porosity control?