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When a guy approaches....

Editing this to make it a bit more clear. In these situations, how do you react:yep:?
If there's anything else, add it in:yep:

When a guy (good looking lol) stares at you...



When you look.. um rough, and a guy approaches...



When the place is busyyy (like on a bus or a train)...

 
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I'm always vague sorry lol. What do you do in those situations? I've noticed I screw face a lot
 
When a guy (good looking lol) stares at you - I stare back if he is alright looking.



When you look.. um rough, and a guy approaches - If he speaks, I speak, why be rude.



When the place is busyyy (like on a bus or a train) and a guy approaches - See answer above.
 
I just went out of my house 2 minutes ago to pick up some groceries and there was this good looking man helping my mom pick up something and he looked at me a couple of times and I just smiled. I get "looked at/approached" at such strange times
 
When a guy (good looking lol) stares at you - I stare back and play eye chase with him. If he is game he will stare back and try to catch my eye. I will smile and make sure my body language is confident, open and engaging. Then look away. The rest is up to him



When you look.. um rough, and a guy approaches - This one is hard for me :lol: it does always seem to happen on the 'fat' days. I will do the same as above. I will be friendly but oh so hummingbird like :lachen: "It's been great speaking with you. but I must dash".



When the place is busyyy (like on a bus or a train) and a guy approaches - This one is even harder because EVERYONE will be watching you like it is an episode of eastenders. :grin: There is nothing wrong with engaging in light conversation but I would keep it to a bare minimum. Hopefully he asks for your number if not... the journey was not wasted off to home/work you go :yep:
 
sunhun -I love love your responses. I've done 'eye chase' before i guess without realising it, and got a 'sex offer'.. not that i accepted it lol.

When i look Rough though, that’s hard, bcos i'm like, why is this person even talking to me? Do i explain i don't always look This bad :lol:

And when it's busy, i don't know. I'm such a blocker for myself!

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Do any of you ever kind of look awayyy or put a screwface on when a guy -just any walks in your direction? Gosh. How do I stop doing that? I guess I don't want to get rejected myself
 
When a guy (good looking lol) stares at you - Good looking guys usually don't look in my direction. I usually look away when bad looking guys look at me. Sometimes I smile briefly if I want to be nice.



When you look.. um rough, and a guy approaches - I don't get approached when I look rough.



When the place is busyyy (like on a bus or a train) and a guy approaches - I don't get approached in busy environments.
 
When a guy (good looking lol) stares at you - I wave and smile at him. If he's interested he'll take it from there.



When you look.. um rough, and a guy approaches - Pray to the lord that he doesn't notice me and I basically act like he doesn't exist. :blush: This is why I make an effort to look cute everywhere I go, even the laundromat.



When the place is busyyy (like on a bus or a train) and a guy approaches - I look away cause I don't wanna get stuck talking to him for the whole length of the trip. (my bus rides last 45+ mins).

Man, no wonder I'm single.
 
:blush::blush: yes, I thought I was the only one that did that :lachen:; I know what I have to do to stop but I've been doing it for so long, it's become a habit. And even then, most guys that are staring me won't smile so if you don't smile at me then I'm not going to smile at you.
:lachen:Yes!! we do need to stop! lol how though? I like how someone wrote working on their 'nonverbal'.
 
When a guy (good looking lol) stares at you...I look away and hope he only looks and doesn't approach me.



When you look.. um rough, and a guy approaches... I speak, maybe talk a minute and keep it moving.



When the place is busyyy (like on a bus or a train)... or at a party or the grocery store? Always do the same thing. Try to avoid these men.
 
dlewis, I don't know where the smilies went, but i'm so happy you're replying here. I loved your blog. I used to read it before I officially joined. Lol at your responses though. I kind of do the same thing, but I'm single, so don't know why I'm doing that by default lol
 
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