I had an extremely happy, carefree childhood and because of this foundation in my formative years, I am till this day just a naturally good-natured, happy person. I am not delusional and think that there is absolutely nothing wrong in the world nor have I had absolutely no problems in my life but this is just my nature. Like I'm sorry I was raised well?
People try so hard to break you down, smiling/smirking when they think you are miserable. Like in an "awwww, you're miserable like me!" way. Like no I'm not miserable. I'm actually good. It's constant and gets worse the older you get. Why the constant need to beat people down? I feel like I've brought this up before but it's becoming a serious issue. It's a lot of passive aggressive behavior all around, especially from strangers and acquaintances, which I will never in my life get...
Is this an issue in non-Western countries or is this just a particular type of American/Western schadenfreude? How do you deal with this?
People try so hard to break you down, smiling/smirking when they think you are miserable. Like in an "awwww, you're miserable like me!" way. Like no I'm not miserable. I'm actually good. It's constant and gets worse the older you get. Why the constant need to beat people down? I feel like I've brought this up before but it's becoming a serious issue. It's a lot of passive aggressive behavior all around, especially from strangers and acquaintances, which I will never in my life get...
Is this an issue in non-Western countries or is this just a particular type of American/Western schadenfreude? How do you deal with this?