Moccaqueen
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I met this great guy a little over a year ago. We dated for three months (no sex), and then he just disappeared off the face of the earth. I mean he stopped calling, texting, coming by, inviting me over... just fell off. I had no clue what could have happened. We were still having awesome dates, traveling and just enjoying life together. Almost exactly one year to the date of his disappearance he called me out of the blue. I had deleted his number and put him to the back of my memory. Once I heard his voice all these feelings came back. He expressed how much he missed me and wanted to see me. I agreed and we met up and went to a comedy show (he still looked good). Afterwards neither of us were ready to go home so we sat at a local bar and talked. I asked all the important questions, but when I asked what happened to him a year ago? he stated "he went overseas to work". I'm thinking dang you couldn't let me know before you left. Anyway the night end and we continued conversing by phone everyday after for two weeks. Next thing I know poof! he pulls another Houdini. It has been over a month since we last spoke, but this morning I receive a call from him. I didn't answer, he left a message saying he lost his phone or had problems with it or what ever. He claims that he wants to take me out for my birthday this weekend. I haven't called him back yet to give him an answer. I don't know what this guys problem is. He seems to be into me (i'm into him), he is at a settling down stage (at least he says so), he has a great career in the medical field, he owns property, and talks of relocating to the same area I am relocating to. The signs are all mixed up, what would you do? Call him back and see what happens, or let him go altogether.
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