angaliquew
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Some one close to me is in the process of going through a divorce with a guy that she has a 4yr. daughter with. Basically they are divorcing because of financial issues due to her husband making some really bad choices. They have property together that has been on the market for quite a while but just won't sale. They both are still living in the house but he comes and goes as he chooses sometimes not coming home until the next day.
Recently he decided to open a personal bank account and have his checks directly deposited into it as opposed to using their joint account.
The problem is that he refuses to give her any money for the household expenses including their mortgage and their child's' daycare. Basically he feels like all she has ever cared about is money and this is his way of getting back at her.
She is really stressed out because she can not cover all the expenses by herself and is afraid that their home will be foreclosed. She can go and stay with her parents but she wants to avoid having a foreclosure on her credit due to the fact that pretty soon she will be a single mother and feels like she can't afford for her credit to get jacked up now. All the while her husband is going out trying to get his motorcycle fixed that he just crashed at the track recently (him spending the household money on his motorcycle has been one of the major issues in their relationship also). I just don't know what advice to give her at this point.
I really want to tell her to *** the house and just leave and go stay with her parents but on the other hand I understand that her having a foreclosure could lead to even bigger issues.
What would you due in this situation?
Recently he decided to open a personal bank account and have his checks directly deposited into it as opposed to using their joint account.
The problem is that he refuses to give her any money for the household expenses including their mortgage and their child's' daycare. Basically he feels like all she has ever cared about is money and this is his way of getting back at her.
She is really stressed out because she can not cover all the expenses by herself and is afraid that their home will be foreclosed. She can go and stay with her parents but she wants to avoid having a foreclosure on her credit due to the fact that pretty soon she will be a single mother and feels like she can't afford for her credit to get jacked up now. All the while her husband is going out trying to get his motorcycle fixed that he just crashed at the track recently (him spending the household money on his motorcycle has been one of the major issues in their relationship also). I just don't know what advice to give her at this point.
I really want to tell her to *** the house and just leave and go stay with her parents but on the other hand I understand that her having a foreclosure could lead to even bigger issues.
What would you due in this situation?