misstobz
Well-Known Member
I had a very good friend who I recently had a fall out with. At the begining of the year, I lent my friend some money after he fell into a bad situation. After the fallout, I was left feeling like I couldnt trust this person, so at that point I was wondering if I would ever get my money back. We dont talk anymore as I had decided it would be better for me, as this relationship was really weighing me down. So last night I called him and asked him if we could talk about the money and come up with a plan that worked for both of us. He was so rude and disrespectful to me I was in absolute shock. He was basically telling me that he is busy and would be able to talk to me in like 1.5 weeks, and things dont run on my timetable. It really hurt my feelings and I cried after talking to him. Well he called later on that evening-I wasnt cussing but was definitely angry and hurt about the whole situation. After a while I believe he had stopped listening as he wasnt saying anything. I kept quiet for a while to hear if he had anything to say and the phone was silent and I just cut the phone. After that I started to pray and I really felt God saying to leave it to Him and walk away. For me it has become more that just about the money but the "principle". It just doesnt seem fair ;-(