indigodiva
Well-Known Member
For any of you who have every had someone you loved with all your heart turn their back on you( break away from the relationship)...have you ever had a weird feeling, like deep down in the pit of your stomach....like its not a physical pain per se' but its like an ache you can't shake...
I mean I'm not asking how to get rid of it, but more along the lines of what is happening to me physically. I know I'm not sick or anything, but I know emotions can effect your body physically, and I'd like to know what is going on...
I dont have anyone I can talk to who really understands and so I have all these bottled up emotions! I've cried just about everyday this month and I just dont think this is healthy...I mean aren't u supposed to be able to get over people. There are moments in the day when I feel fine, and I think I'm over it, and then these different feelings keep sneaking up on me. I want to accept the situation, but its like my stupid heart isn't listening!!!! When I think rationally, then I'm ok, but I just cant hold on to whats rational all day no matter how hard I try. I am so sick of feeling like this. I went to church last night and I was ok, and I pray all day long asking God to release me from and I have my moments when I'm cool...but then I get like I am now with tears running down my face feeling a feeling i wouldn't wish on my worst enemy...
And it all begins with this aching feeling in my gut, its like it starts there and before I know it, I've lost my damn composure!!!!!!! I'm sorry if I'm rambling, but I really dont know how to handle these stages of a break up. I really am beginning to feel like I am manic or something. I mean keep trying to remind myself that everything happens for a reason, and God is in control of everything, but during moments like these it feels like he's not even listening, b/c I asked him to take these stupid feelings away, and they keep returning. Is it too much to ask to want to feel normal again!!!!!! Maybe it could be due to the fact that I have not been with out a boyfriend for the past 4 years. ( I have only dated 2 guys so far, I'm 22 and they both lasted about 2 years)---
I mean please dont think I'm dumb, but I AM HURTING, and I just dont want to anymore. Its either be a wreck completely or convince myself that I am ok, only to have another one of these breakdowns. Somebody help me.
I'll even take just a virtual hug
I mean I'm not asking how to get rid of it, but more along the lines of what is happening to me physically. I know I'm not sick or anything, but I know emotions can effect your body physically, and I'd like to know what is going on...
I dont have anyone I can talk to who really understands and so I have all these bottled up emotions! I've cried just about everyday this month and I just dont think this is healthy...I mean aren't u supposed to be able to get over people. There are moments in the day when I feel fine, and I think I'm over it, and then these different feelings keep sneaking up on me. I want to accept the situation, but its like my stupid heart isn't listening!!!! When I think rationally, then I'm ok, but I just cant hold on to whats rational all day no matter how hard I try. I am so sick of feeling like this. I went to church last night and I was ok, and I pray all day long asking God to release me from and I have my moments when I'm cool...but then I get like I am now with tears running down my face feeling a feeling i wouldn't wish on my worst enemy...
And it all begins with this aching feeling in my gut, its like it starts there and before I know it, I've lost my damn composure!!!!!!! I'm sorry if I'm rambling, but I really dont know how to handle these stages of a break up. I really am beginning to feel like I am manic or something. I mean keep trying to remind myself that everything happens for a reason, and God is in control of everything, but during moments like these it feels like he's not even listening, b/c I asked him to take these stupid feelings away, and they keep returning. Is it too much to ask to want to feel normal again!!!!!! Maybe it could be due to the fact that I have not been with out a boyfriend for the past 4 years. ( I have only dated 2 guys so far, I'm 22 and they both lasted about 2 years)---
I mean please dont think I'm dumb, but I AM HURTING, and I just dont want to anymore. Its either be a wreck completely or convince myself that I am ok, only to have another one of these breakdowns. Somebody help me.
I'll even take just a virtual hug