I've wrestled with this question lately and I've decided a few things-
The number one thing I decided is that I want to grow my hair long again. I want it to not only be long, but I want healthy hair, healthy ends, shiny, bouncy, strong hair. I want this again and I WILL have it.
I know from past experience that Phyto works well on my hair. I've used other cheaper products in the past, and those products have not worked the same nor have they worked as well. There are some new products I've become aware of here that I'd like to try - and I probably will. But, even in the trying, these products will have to be of a similar quality and type. Phyto is a little pricy, but there are products far more expensive (expensive is a relative term that largely depends on personal budget and such things). I'd rather have my Phyto line and the other products I need and want and use than lots of other things that sit on the shelf that I've settled for and rarely, if ever use.
The final issue I decided and DH and I had a talk about this - spending money on myself. I hardly ever do. For him, for the kids, for the grandkids, for the blinkin' dog, for goodness sake, all of these always end up coming before me like I am some unworthy left-handed stepchild. Not so! I work very hard for my money, and I will use some of it on myself. If that means that someone else doesn't get something, I can live with that. All of my children are of an age to work and earn their own money; they just like spending mine better
. If you are a woman with family, think about the number of times you do without something that you want/need so that someone else can have something. I can pinch a penny until a squeaks, but not on this, not this time.