Where do I begin...
Roundbrushhair.com (former member JennMD owns this one), beautyofnewyork.com, ibeautyny.com are all good sites. Roundbrush and beautyofnewyork are me faves. As far as the conditioners go, I'm such a PJ but I can give a brief list:
Staple DCs are: Silicon Mix, D'Fina 11 en 1, Nacidit Olive Oil, BPT Wheat Germ.
Other DCs I have: Miel y Leche, Miel y Almendra,Toque Emergencia, Capilo Sole & Cinnamon, Capilo Avocado & Carrot, Capilo 311, Nacidit Wheat Germ, Nacidit Mixed Hair, Star Placenta & Collagen, Miss keys 10 en 1, Tropical Fresa, Miss Keys Crema Negra...that's all I can remember right now.
Rinses that I now use to CW are: La bomba (better for hotter months), Lafier Desrizol (staple), Capilo 311, Nacidit Aguacate, 12 en 1, D'Fina 11 en 1, Wheat Germ